"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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what do you think of david DeAngelo

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i think his stuff has some valid points especially about what he describes as "natural compass" but he tries way to hard to sell his book and it pisses me off trying to pick valid stuff through his ads
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Heaven forbid that he tries to make money off of putting together a bunch of information into a concise format that's easily digested. People should do work for others without any expectation of getting paid.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Heaven forbid that he tries to make money off of putting together a bunch of information into a concise format that's easily digested. People should do work for others without any expectation of getting paid.
Haha. I agree with Francisco d'Anconia. Just wait 'till all the "entitled" people wake up from their partying, and start bashing him and turn it into the typical David Deangelo thread, which, hell695, you could have searched for, btw.
 

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There are about 100 of these threads.
Use the "Search" feature next time. ;)
 

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I think some of his stuff for inner game is good, its just that he doesn't go into the Comfort Stage much...which is the biggest flaw of his material. Other methods that talk about that stage imo are better. ****y and Funny can only get u so far. Still got to have a vibing conversation.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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David Deangelo is top notch. He has great products.
 

DonJoseCantosie

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I have to disagree. He has great products, but i think he just got guys into the game. There is better stuff out there. I can mention some.
 

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DonJoseCantosie said:
I think some of his stuff for inner game is good, its just that he doesn't go into the Comfort Stage much...which is the biggest flaw of his material. Other methods that talk about that stage imo are better. ****y and Funny can only get u so far. Still got to have a vibing conversation.

What material/who would you guys recommend that best covers going through the comfort stage?
 

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Badboy's Ebook
Mystery Method(Altho im not fond of his style)
Juggler's How to be a pickup artist
Gunwitch's Dynamic Sex Life
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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DonJoseCantosie said:
Badboy's Ebook
Mystery Method(Altho im not fond of his style)
Juggler's How to be a pickup artist
Gunwitch's Dynamic Sex Life
What the hell does Gunwitch say about a "comfort" stage?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Gunwitch aleady assumes comfort by default, so theres no stage
 

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DJVladdy said:
Gunwitch aleady assumes comfort by default, so theres no stage
I don't know; but I guess that's one way of looking at it.
 

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I like DeAngelo because he teaches a good mindset, and a few of his videos are very helpful, mainly body language.
 

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I need a chapter on pillow talk and how to kick women out of my place when we're finished.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Oh yeah without Deangelo I wouldn't be half the man I am today.
 
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