"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what do you think of david DeAngelo

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i think his stuff has some valid points especially about what he describes as "natural compass" but he tries way to hard to sell his book and it pisses me off trying to pick valid stuff through his ads
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Heaven forbid that he tries to make money off of putting together a bunch of information into a concise format that's easily digested. People should do work for others without any expectation of getting paid.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Heaven forbid that he tries to make money off of putting together a bunch of information into a concise format that's easily digested. People should do work for others without any expectation of getting paid.
Haha. I agree with Francisco d'Anconia. Just wait 'till all the "entitled" people wake up from their partying, and start bashing him and turn it into the typical David Deangelo thread, which, hell695, you could have searched for, btw.
 

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There are about 100 of these threads.
Use the "Search" feature next time. ;)
 

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I think some of his stuff for inner game is good, its just that he doesn't go into the Comfort Stage much...which is the biggest flaw of his material. Other methods that talk about that stage imo are better. ****y and Funny can only get u so far. Still got to have a vibing conversation.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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David Deangelo is top notch. He has great products.
 

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I have to disagree. He has great products, but i think he just got guys into the game. There is better stuff out there. I can mention some.
 

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DonJoseCantosie said:
I think some of his stuff for inner game is good, its just that he doesn't go into the Comfort Stage much...which is the biggest flaw of his material. Other methods that talk about that stage imo are better. ****y and Funny can only get u so far. Still got to have a vibing conversation.

What material/who would you guys recommend that best covers going through the comfort stage?
 

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Badboy's Ebook
Mystery Method(Altho im not fond of his style)
Juggler's How to be a pickup artist
Gunwitch's Dynamic Sex Life
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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DonJoseCantosie said:
Badboy's Ebook
Mystery Method(Altho im not fond of his style)
Juggler's How to be a pickup artist
Gunwitch's Dynamic Sex Life
What the hell does Gunwitch say about a "comfort" stage?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJVladdy

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Gunwitch aleady assumes comfort by default, so theres no stage
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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DJVladdy said:
Gunwitch aleady assumes comfort by default, so theres no stage
I don't know; but I guess that's one way of looking at it.
 

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I like DeAngelo because he teaches a good mindset, and a few of his videos are very helpful, mainly body language.
 

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I need a chapter on pillow talk and how to kick women out of my place when we're finished.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Oh yeah without Deangelo I wouldn't be half the man I am today.
 
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