Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Sure, why would you wuss out and lie? What are you afriad of? IT'S NONE OF HER FVCKIN' BUSINESS!!!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
what do YOU say when a girl asks you, "How many women have you been with?"
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
pimp in training
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what do you mean? i didnt say lie, i just said tell the ho its nonna her business....im just saying if you tell her and its a high number i DONT think she'd be impressed...Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Sure, why would you wuss out and lie? What are you afriad of? IT'S NONE OF HER FVCKIN' BUSINESS!!!
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
You tell a AFC not to tell her a high number and what will he do, lie more than likely. But then again, if he tells her a high number and he's a AFC he's probably lying already.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i agree it makes him tryin to get some gash...
man this thread is old stuff..like 2 yrs...
where the heck is my beer? dang dude .. did you have to go to iceland to get it?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
So what if she asks about the mice?
penkitten
Master Don Juan
unless shes laying on your bed half nekkid listening to a furry critter chew on the wall.. shes not gonna think about mice..Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
So what if she asks about the mice?
its a stupid **** test.. ignore it.. and do something else..
Someone posted this..
"Numbers don't matter, all that matters is that I'm here with YOU now."
Improvement..
"all that matters is that I'm here with YOU enjoying this special time"
Even better... change the thread..
"u know how amazing it feels to hold each other right now.. "
She changed the topic from U AND HER to U AND HISTORY.. CHANGE IT BACK TO U AND HER.. Active moment not history..
Someone posted this..
"Numbers don't matter, all that matters is that I'm here with YOU now."
Improvement..
"all that matters is that I'm here with YOU enjoying this special time"
Even better... change the thread..
"u know how amazing it feels to hold each other right now.. "
She changed the topic from U AND HER to U AND HISTORY.. CHANGE IT BACK TO U AND HER.. Active moment not history..
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Her: "I have slept with 6, what about you?"
Me: "Oh, it is a competition?"
Her: "No."
Me: "Oh, good. I hate losing."
Her: "Hehehe. You mean you've had less than 6?"
Me: "Well do you consider having more sex partners winning?"
Her: ....
(smile)
Me: "Oh, it is a competition?"
Her: "No."
Me: "Oh, good. I hate losing."
Her: "Hehehe. You mean you've had less than 6?"
Me: "Well do you consider having more sex partners winning?"
Her: ....
(smile)
penkitten
Master Don Juan
rofl
PeterCrouch
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Ive been with no women, so how should i reply to this?
BTW im 19 and no exactly proud of not being with any women!
BTW im 19 and no exactly proud of not being with any women!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
brat-buster
Don Juan
Some of my responses to either of these questions always ina charming ****y funny way is..............
Why? do you want me to show you how to pick up/ sleep with girls?
or
"Thousands"
or
(with a sly smile) none......I'm a virgin. (they know I'm kidding cuz I'm 39)
Why? do you want me to show you how to pick up/ sleep with girls?
or
"Thousands"
or
(with a sly smile) none......I'm a virgin. (they know I'm kidding cuz I'm 39)
T
tj
Guest
the truth.. never lie to a woman it will and always comes back to haunt you.
perhaps wait untill she becomes number 50 or whatever first
perhaps wait untill she becomes number 50 or whatever first
Depending on the mood - I'm a smartass, and for me the 'obvious lie' often gets a big laugh with a playful laugh "whatever! you're horrible" such as:
"Actually, by court order I cannot sleep with girls - they determined that it was in society's best interest that I never reproduce"
"I've been too scared to sleep with anybody ever since I almost lost my virginity to a she-male"
You could go the other way, too, and obviously exaggerate.
"Well, there's a period in my life where I was willing to sell my body... and I slept with hundreds of beautiful but desperate women in a 6 month period. That's how I earned my down payment for my house" (I don't have a house)
It's not lying if she knows your full of sh!t.
"Actually, by court order I cannot sleep with girls - they determined that it was in society's best interest that I never reproduce"
"I've been too scared to sleep with anybody ever since I almost lost my virginity to a she-male"
You could go the other way, too, and obviously exaggerate.
"Well, there's a period in my life where I was willing to sell my body... and I slept with hundreds of beautiful but desperate women in a 6 month period. That's how I earned my down payment for my house" (I don't have a house)
It's not lying if she knows your full of sh!t.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
perhaps not the best in the situation, but definitely the funniest, the best ones are in the 1st 3 pages
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.