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What do you say to end a phone conversation early?

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Sirducer

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Originally posted by Eighth Passenger
What are some good excuses?
Why do you want to end convos early? I mean sure its good if your a newbie to seduction but some of the best rapport is spend on the phone prior to the meet. Just dont ask questions about her work or school.

If you need to then say you gotta go, no fancy bulslhit here.:rolleyes:
 

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Re: Re: What do you say to end a phone conversation early?

Originally posted by Sirducer
Why do you want to end convos early? I mean sure its good if your a newbie to seduction but some of the best rapport is spend on the phone prior to the meet. Just dont ask questions about her work or school.

If you need to then say you gotta go, no fancy bulslhit here.:rolleyes:
It's a legitimate question.
 

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Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Re: Re: Re: What do you say to end a phone conversation early?

Originally posted by Eighth Passenger
It's a legitimate question.
Instead of asking what to say when ending convos, work out how to best establish attraction and rapport on the phone, make HER want to meet you. The problem with this forum is that too many fu.cking guys worry about what to say in different situs and TOTALLY neglect their INNER game which is the most important part of becoming a PUA or DJ (whatever turns you on).
 

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My question comes from the fact I ended a conversation with a pretty lame excuse. I did not plan what to say and it came out disorganized. I was hoping for some excuses that I can memorize for future calls.

I have no problem with setting up a rapport and keeping a friendly conversation going.
 

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Don't worry about being sneaky. Just get off the phone when you want to. If you're honest with yourself you'll find that you usually stay on longer than you'd like. So when you want to get off just saaaaaay:

"I'm gonna get going now, but I enjoyed talking with ya. Take care."

Bingo bango end of the el conversation-o.
 

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here are what I often say

"hey I got to go, my brother want to use the phone. Talk to you later"

or

"hey I got to go, my sister wants to use the phone. Talk to you later"

since we only have one house phone line, and one fax, but my brother and sister got cell phones.

and here are some random ones

"it's supper time, I got to go. Call you later"

"hey I got another phone call, I think its my mom (or dad) Call you later" <-- to show the phone call is important so she won't think you would stop talking to her for your guy / girl friends


here are some stupid ones

"hey my ex called me, later"

"hey my beer buddies called me, later"

"hey I am going to hang up now because I am at your door right now *ding dong*"
 

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oh ****. i gotta go. some insane *****'s banging on my front door. -CLICK-

just kidding. dont you ever dare use that

a "hey i gotta go.. talk to you again" will suffice.
 

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If you dont want to use any of those, just act like someone is calling you, your mom, sister ect.
 

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Originally posted by AFK Protector
"Hey listen. I gotta cut this short. I'll see you tomorrow"

"Hey I really gotta get going now."

be vague. don't supplicate. don't apologize. you got another life besides talkin to her.
Exactly...
 
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