Eighth Passenger
Don Juan
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What are some good excuses?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Why do you want to end convos early? I mean sure its good if your a newbie to seduction but some of the best rapport is spend on the phone prior to the meet. Just dont ask questions about her work or school.Originally posted by Eighth Passenger
What are some good excuses?
It's a legitimate question.Originally posted by Sirducer
Why do you want to end convos early? I mean sure its good if your a newbie to seduction but some of the best rapport is spend on the phone prior to the meet. Just dont ask questions about her work or school.
If you need to then say you gotta go, no fancy bulslhit here.![]()
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Instead of asking what to say when ending convos, work out how to best establish attraction and rapport on the phone, make HER want to meet you. The problem with this forum is that too many fu.cking guys worry about what to say in different situs and TOTALLY neglect their INNER game which is the most important part of becoming a PUA or DJ (whatever turns you on).Originally posted by Eighth Passenger
It's a legitimate question.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Exactly...Originally posted by AFK Protector
"Hey listen. I gotta cut this short. I'll see you tomorrow"
"Hey I really gotta get going now."
be vague. don't supplicate. don't apologize. you got another life besides talkin to her.