"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What do you prefer? Hot or cute girls?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
cute=nice and good looking
and cute girls make great gfs
(but take breakup really bad like crazy crying bad)
go with cuties
TheLegace
Don Juan
SomeRandomGuy
Don Juan
Scenario 1
Cute: Don’t worry ill help you out with that.
Hot: HELP ME OUT HERE YOU F%(!@*.
Scenario 2
Cute: Your sick? Ill help you to the doctor.
Hot: Your sick? Get the hell away from me.
Scenario 3
Cute: *crys* What you said hurt me....
Hot: I cheated on you with your best friend because you hurt me...
Yep....cute is better.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
True.
I actually care about cuties.... the hot ones are only good to f*ck, because they're worthless people.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
not all of them but i have a skewed view of women because I weigh personality more then looks to me. Thats why I approach people with the idea of all I want to do is become friends with people and if they impress me. Then I will ask the number. I am very picky about who I go out with. I found a total of ten girls since July that was worth dating.
Everyone is different. No one is the same.
comic_relief
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
and likes my music. Im so tired of getto girls there
all the same with the same wants
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
hmm..... lemme think......
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The Antichrist_Star
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*Bows* Thank You...Originally posted by MrS
Antichrist Superstar is teh win.
Whichever flicks my switch
And I would say the same thing... or like I said earlier, both.
AS
MightyMate
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Distant Light
Master Don Juan
lol I'd go for both but which ones i'd prefer i'd say Hot girls. For number of reasons.
1. She is the hottest thing there everyone wants her but couldn't get her.
2. Having her walk around with me in public boost my social proof more than a cute girl.
3. I'd rather sex a hot girl than a cute girl.
Side note: Hot girls aren't really *****es. If you think about it is she really being a ***** with who ever is having sex with her. (doubt it) She has to shoot down the afc's so she got to be a ***** in order for them to leave. Hey once you get past that she is just like any cute girl. If they were all *****es then they would all be virgins and die a virgin.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Distant Light
Master Don Juan
Every time i sarge my skill set is boosted. Each time i get laid my inner game is boosted.
I like to have fun and try crazy stuff with girls thats why i love MLTRs cause its fun and brings a twist. Or why i want to do "Mission 1" (Look at my sig) Its all for fun and for me to experience. I don't just want a girl and go out with her for 3 years dong the same boring stuff.
Confident1
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