"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What do you prefer? Hot or cute girls?
- Thread starter shiningshadow
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
cute=nice and good looking
and cute girls make great gfs
(but take breakup really bad like crazy crying bad)
go with cuties
TheLegace
Don Juan
SomeRandomGuy
Don Juan
Scenario 1
Cute: Don’t worry ill help you out with that.
Hot: HELP ME OUT HERE YOU F%(!@*.
Scenario 2
Cute: Your sick? Ill help you to the doctor.
Hot: Your sick? Get the hell away from me.
Scenario 3
Cute: *crys* What you said hurt me....
Hot: I cheated on you with your best friend because you hurt me...
Yep....cute is better.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
True.
I actually care about cuties.... the hot ones are only good to f*ck, because they're worthless people.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
not all of them but i have a skewed view of women because I weigh personality more then looks to me. Thats why I approach people with the idea of all I want to do is become friends with people and if they impress me. Then I will ask the number. I am very picky about who I go out with. I found a total of ten girls since July that was worth dating.
Everyone is different. No one is the same.
comic_relief
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
and likes my music. Im so tired of getto girls there
all the same with the same wants
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
hmm..... lemme think......
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
The Antichrist_Star
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*Bows* Thank You...Originally posted by MrS
Antichrist Superstar is teh win.
Whichever flicks my switch
And I would say the same thing... or like I said earlier, both.
AS
MightyMate
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Distant Light
Master Don Juan
lol I'd go for both but which ones i'd prefer i'd say Hot girls. For number of reasons.
1. She is the hottest thing there everyone wants her but couldn't get her.
2. Having her walk around with me in public boost my social proof more than a cute girl.
3. I'd rather sex a hot girl than a cute girl.
Side note: Hot girls aren't really *****es. If you think about it is she really being a ***** with who ever is having sex with her. (doubt it) She has to shoot down the afc's so she got to be a ***** in order for them to leave. Hey once you get past that she is just like any cute girl. If they were all *****es then they would all be virgins and die a virgin.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Distant Light
Master Don Juan
Every time i sarge my skill set is boosted. Each time i get laid my inner game is boosted.
I like to have fun and try crazy stuff with girls thats why i love MLTRs cause its fun and brings a twist. Or why i want to do "Mission 1" (Look at my sig) Its all for fun and for me to experience. I don't just want a girl and go out with her for 3 years dong the same boring stuff.
Confident1
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