Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
True.Originally posted by SomeRandomGuy
Scenario 3
Cute: *crys* What you said hurt me....
Hot: I cheated on you with your best friend because you hurt me...
not all of them but i have a skewed view of women because I weigh personality more then looks to me. Thats why I approach people with the idea of all I want to do is become friends with people and if they impress me. Then I will ask the number. I am very picky about who I go out with. I found a total of ten girls since July that was worth dating.Originally posted by AC/DC
True.
I actually care about cuties.... the hot ones are only good to f*ck, because they're worthless people.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
*Bows* Thank You...Originally posted by MrS
Antichrist Superstar is teh win.
Whichever flicks my switch![]()
Originally posted by Jonathan
Cute Girls= Loyal and Nice
Hot Girls= *****es
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
That's pathetic, man. Why does any gir l have to boost anything for you? You should feel comfortable in your own skin without her. Come on man, don't sound so needy.Originally posted by Distant Light
lol I'd go for both but which ones i'd prefer i'd say Hot girls. For number of reasons.
1. She is the hottest thing there everyone wants her but couldn't get her.
2. Having her walk around with me in public boost my social proof more than a cute girl.
3. I'd rather sex a hot girl than a cute girl.
Side note: Hot girls aren't really *****es. If you think about it is she really being a ***** with who ever is having sex with her. (doubt it) She has to shoot down the afc's so she got to be a ***** in order for them to leave. Hey once you get past that she is just like any cute girl. If they were all *****es then they would all be virgins and die a virgin.