"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
What do you prefer? Hot or cute girls?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
cute=nice and good looking
and cute girls make great gfs
(but take breakup really bad like crazy crying bad)
go with cuties
TheLegace
Don Juan
SomeRandomGuy
Don Juan
Scenario 1
Cute: Don’t worry ill help you out with that.
Hot: HELP ME OUT HERE YOU F%(!@*.
Scenario 2
Cute: Your sick? Ill help you to the doctor.
Hot: Your sick? Get the hell away from me.
Scenario 3
Cute: *crys* What you said hurt me....
Hot: I cheated on you with your best friend because you hurt me...
Yep....cute is better.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
True.
I actually care about cuties.... the hot ones are only good to f*ck, because they're worthless people.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
not all of them but i have a skewed view of women because I weigh personality more then looks to me. Thats why I approach people with the idea of all I want to do is become friends with people and if they impress me. Then I will ask the number. I am very picky about who I go out with. I found a total of ten girls since July that was worth dating.
Everyone is different. No one is the same.
comic_relief
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
and likes my music. Im so tired of getto girls there
all the same with the same wants
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
hmm..... lemme think......
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
The Antichrist_Star
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*Bows* Thank You...Originally posted by MrS
Antichrist Superstar is teh win.
Whichever flicks my switch
And I would say the same thing... or like I said earlier, both.
AS
MightyMate
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Distant Light
Master Don Juan
lol I'd go for both but which ones i'd prefer i'd say Hot girls. For number of reasons.
1. She is the hottest thing there everyone wants her but couldn't get her.
2. Having her walk around with me in public boost my social proof more than a cute girl.
3. I'd rather sex a hot girl than a cute girl.
Side note: Hot girls aren't really *****es. If you think about it is she really being a ***** with who ever is having sex with her. (doubt it) She has to shoot down the afc's so she got to be a ***** in order for them to leave. Hey once you get past that she is just like any cute girl. If they were all *****es then they would all be virgins and die a virgin.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Distant Light
Master Don Juan
Every time i sarge my skill set is boosted. Each time i get laid my inner game is boosted.
I like to have fun and try crazy stuff with girls thats why i love MLTRs cause its fun and brings a twist. Or why i want to do "Mission 1" (Look at my sig) Its all for fun and for me to experience. I don't just want a girl and go out with her for 3 years dong the same boring stuff.
Confident1
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