"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
What do you prefer? Hot or cute girls?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
cute=nice and good looking
and cute girls make great gfs
(but take breakup really bad like crazy crying bad)
go with cuties
TheLegace
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SomeRandomGuy
Don Juan
Scenario 1
Cute: Don’t worry ill help you out with that.
Hot: HELP ME OUT HERE YOU F%(!@*.
Scenario 2
Cute: Your sick? Ill help you to the doctor.
Hot: Your sick? Get the hell away from me.
Scenario 3
Cute: *crys* What you said hurt me....
Hot: I cheated on you with your best friend because you hurt me...
Yep....cute is better.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
True.
I actually care about cuties.... the hot ones are only good to f*ck, because they're worthless people.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
not all of them but i have a skewed view of women because I weigh personality more then looks to me. Thats why I approach people with the idea of all I want to do is become friends with people and if they impress me. Then I will ask the number. I am very picky about who I go out with. I found a total of ten girls since July that was worth dating.
Everyone is different. No one is the same.
comic_relief
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
and likes my music. Im so tired of getto girls there
all the same with the same wants
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
hmm..... lemme think......
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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*Bows* Thank You...Originally posted by MrS
Antichrist Superstar is teh win.
Whichever flicks my switch
And I would say the same thing... or like I said earlier, both.
AS
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Distant Light
Master Don Juan
lol I'd go for both but which ones i'd prefer i'd say Hot girls. For number of reasons.
1. She is the hottest thing there everyone wants her but couldn't get her.
2. Having her walk around with me in public boost my social proof more than a cute girl.
3. I'd rather sex a hot girl than a cute girl.
Side note: Hot girls aren't really *****es. If you think about it is she really being a ***** with who ever is having sex with her. (doubt it) She has to shoot down the afc's so she got to be a ***** in order for them to leave. Hey once you get past that she is just like any cute girl. If they were all *****es then they would all be virgins and die a virgin.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Distant Light
Master Don Juan
Every time i sarge my skill set is boosted. Each time i get laid my inner game is boosted.
I like to have fun and try crazy stuff with girls thats why i love MLTRs cause its fun and brings a twist. Or why i want to do "Mission 1" (Look at my sig) Its all for fun and for me to experience. I don't just want a girl and go out with her for 3 years dong the same boring stuff.
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