Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
True.Originally posted by SomeRandomGuy
Scenario 3
Cute: *crys* What you said hurt me....
Hot: I cheated on you with your best friend because you hurt me...
not all of them but i have a skewed view of women because I weigh personality more then looks to me. Thats why I approach people with the idea of all I want to do is become friends with people and if they impress me. Then I will ask the number. I am very picky about who I go out with. I found a total of ten girls since July that was worth dating.Originally posted by AC/DC
True.
I actually care about cuties.... the hot ones are only good to f*ck, because they're worthless people.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
*Bows* Thank You...Originally posted by MrS
Antichrist Superstar is teh win.
Whichever flicks my switch![]()
Originally posted by Jonathan
Cute Girls= Loyal and Nice
Hot Girls= *****es
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
That's pathetic, man. Why does any gir l have to boost anything for you? You should feel comfortable in your own skin without her. Come on man, don't sound so needy.Originally posted by Distant Light
lol I'd go for both but which ones i'd prefer i'd say Hot girls. For number of reasons.
1. She is the hottest thing there everyone wants her but couldn't get her.
2. Having her walk around with me in public boost my social proof more than a cute girl.
3. I'd rather sex a hot girl than a cute girl.
Side note: Hot girls aren't really *****es. If you think about it is she really being a ***** with who ever is having sex with her. (doubt it) She has to shoot down the afc's so she got to be a ***** in order for them to leave. Hey once you get past that she is just like any cute girl. If they were all *****es then they would all be virgins and die a virgin.