"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
What do you do when someone says this to you?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Try to make those beta/ug/society shame tactics slide right off your back mate.
Whos the c@ckblocker anyway?, if its a chick some gaming could be in order.
I'd advise changing your game. Third-party observers, especially women, tend to be particularly good at seeing through whatever veil you're wearing. In the rare case that their claim is unjustifiable, then it's probably a good idea to not let the bastards get you down. Focus on the girl. Demonstrate with your undivided attention that the world doesn't matter when you're with her. On the other hand, if you can't do that because you are not genuinely interested, you'll just come off as a fake.donjuan87 said:What do you do when you are at talking to a girl and someone says "he just wants a piece of ass"?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Well said.( . )( . ) said:Try to make those beta/ug/society shame tactics slide right off your back mate.
To trip over such BS, is just to get caught up unnecessarily.
To Phyzzle: I would have probably said what you suggested, but I hadn't built up any rapport yet.
If you weren't interested in her, you wouldn't be concerned about some guy's off-the-wall comment.donjuan87 said:To Demon: I wasn't running any game on her. I was just talking to be friendly, and also it was a guy who made the comment.
Badmannaz
Master Don Juan
SHE JUST WANTS A PIECE OF ASS TOO !
Look at her dumbass wink and continue on what you were doing, the littlest things throw you guys off
-Cod3r
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
It's not about that, it's about reputation. I go to a pretty small university, and you have to worry about your reputation. I know guys who follow the philosophy "the guy who gets rejected the most leaves with the most numbers" (i.e. hitting on a girl without getting any IOIs first) and they have bad reputations, especially among girls.Demon said:If you weren't interested in her, you wouldn't be concerned about some guy's off-the-wall comment.
squirrels
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Say, "No I don't want a piece, I want the WHOLE THING!"donjuan87 said:What do you do when you are at talking to a girl and someone says "he just wants a piece of ass"?
Themanthatcan
Senior Don Juan
squirrels said:Say, "No I don't want a piece, I want the WHOLE THING!"
My thoughts, exactly.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Your shooting down every1's real advice.
Whether you like the wording or not... who cares.
Catch the message we're all kickin here. Fvck the dude... who cares.
Suave it on... in whatever way you like.
Look her in the eye, and say "He's just jeolous. Anyways... lets get some ice-cream sometime, you lil vixen."
Or whatever. Doesn't really matter, as long as you kept your vibe up and cool w. her.
This is minor.
Treat it as such.
So with that said... let me ask you a question.
If you could have redone the situation.
How would you have now responded? What would you now say?
Good........... theres your answer.
Get the **** out of here.donjuan87 said:Does anyone have some real advice?
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
donjuan87 said:Does anyone have some real advice?
That is real advice. The point of everybodys response is basically you saying "DUH I WANT SOME ASS AND I"M NOT AFRAID TO ADMIT IT"
But of course it comes off as a joke...'
My response is simply, "hell yeah" and put my arm around the b*tch.
the_milkman
Don Juan
1) empty your creamy load into that chick's tight uterus... aaaAAHHHH!! feels soooo gooooddd....
2) drop her
3) NEXT.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
see bro, that's the kind of stuff that makes people not want to respond to your post. Guys are taking time out to help you out, even if you don't agree w/ it appreciate it.donjuan87 said:Does anyone have some real advice?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.