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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What do you all usually do for the second date?

nicksaiz65

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Coffee has been a great first date for me. Honestly, it’s usually my go-to date.

Since we know that women will usually put out on the second or third date, what do you all usually do for the second date? So that you can escalate things a bit? Dates that could be applied in college would be excellent too.
 

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Doctor Europeo

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Assuming she agreed to a second date because she´s already into you, in my experience it doesn´t matter, do wahtever you feel like doing.
 

Murk

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Bro in college all my dates were “come to my room and let’s watch a movie and get high/drink”

I’m assuming you live in halls (see campus), just ask to go over.

Ask the girls doing any sports therapy course for a massage.

In fact ask any girl for a massage or offer a massage. You shouldn’t be going anywhere on dates except drinking and to each other’s rooms. If they say no, “cool” and move on.

Sh1t I’m 29 and that’s also what I do now
 

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Bro in college all my dates were “come to my room and let’s watch a movie and get high/drink”

I’m assuming you live in halls (see campus), just ask to go over.

Ask the girls doing any sports therapy course for a massage.

In fact ask any girl for a massage or offer a massage. You shouldn’t be going anywhere on dates except drinking and to each other’s rooms. If they say no, “cool” and move on.

Sh1t I’m 29 and that’s also what I do now
I totally agree Murk. Honestly, every time I do that I’ve gotten laid
 

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Depends, last year I had a first date with a girl that lasted for almost 5 hours, so obviously it went really well. Our second date was two days later which involved going to Wal Mart to get snacks and then coming over to my place to watch a movie.

Mini golf, bowling, going for a walk/hike, just hanging out...so many options. You really don't need to do anything fancy nor expensive, just have fun.
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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