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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What do you all usually do for the second date?

nicksaiz65

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Coffee has been a great first date for me. Honestly, it’s usually my go-to date.

Since we know that women will usually put out on the second or third date, what do you all usually do for the second date? So that you can escalate things a bit? Dates that could be applied in college would be excellent too.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Assuming she agreed to a second date because she´s already into you, in my experience it doesn´t matter, do wahtever you feel like doing.
 

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Bro in college all my dates were “come to my room and let’s watch a movie and get high/drink”

I’m assuming you live in halls (see campus), just ask to go over.

Ask the girls doing any sports therapy course for a massage.

In fact ask any girl for a massage or offer a massage. You shouldn’t be going anywhere on dates except drinking and to each other’s rooms. If they say no, “cool” and move on.

Sh1t I’m 29 and that’s also what I do now
 

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Bro in college all my dates were “come to my room and let’s watch a movie and get high/drink”

I’m assuming you live in halls (see campus), just ask to go over.

Ask the girls doing any sports therapy course for a massage.

In fact ask any girl for a massage or offer a massage. You shouldn’t be going anywhere on dates except drinking and to each other’s rooms. If they say no, “cool” and move on.

Sh1t I’m 29 and that’s also what I do now
I totally agree Murk. Honestly, every time I do that I’ve gotten laid
 

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Depends, last year I had a first date with a girl that lasted for almost 5 hours, so obviously it went really well. Our second date was two days later which involved going to Wal Mart to get snacks and then coming over to my place to watch a movie.

Mini golf, bowling, going for a walk/hike, just hanging out...so many options. You really don't need to do anything fancy nor expensive, just have fun.
 

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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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