@mrgoodstuff I don't think it would have mattered what she said.
@LARaiders85 Yes, basically text book.
@LARaiders85 Yes, basically text book.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Your right, hes being a retard.@mrgoodstuff I don't think it would have mattered what she said.
@LARaiders85 Yes, basically text book.
She said " I'm good. I have a man. You had a chance and played". That's mean she was interestedShe coulda said i have a man and not i interested.
You shot your shot and she moved on. Then you pushed it.She said " I'm good. I have a man. You had a chance and played". That's mean she was interested
Ok I feel you now...I was distracted because I know I coulda had her..SMH and now it's extra difficultYou shot your shot and she moved on. Then you pushed it.
You are projecting your interest on her so much that you take ONE thing out of 5,000 definite indicators of disinterest and decide it means she wants you. What kind of dignity and self respect do you have as a man to repeatedly try to connect with a girl who has pushed you away FOR YEARS?.the day she asked where I was at ..so I can't say she wasn't never interested....that's what's confusing me