"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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what do u guys think of this shoe?

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I wouldn't be caught dead in that shoe.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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It would be good if it didn't rise so high. It's trying to be plimsolls boots which is pretty sh1t.

Although it could look good with the right outfit.
 
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kingsam said:
why the hell are you asking people on a forum?

if you like it buy it
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Agreed.

This shoe looks geared toward an urban style of dress and if I'm not mistaken, there are more white posters here who want you to conform to their own style of dress.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm black and it's hideous. Still truth rings with the last two posters. I've been here for years and not once have I asked the forum what they thought of my style. I know what works for me and Im very confident in my choices. Not caring what other people think is a very important skill to have in your pocket. It goes a long wayI for self validation.
 
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Hideous.

Sometimes things are just ugly and people need to be told. That is ugly. In most cases I would agree with the other posters who said buy it if you like it. Now...not so much. keep trying young'n.
 
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I don't think it looks bad. Is it a comfortable shoe?

I pick shoes for comfort. I don't care much for style, to be honest. Pick what you like, what's comfortable. Shoes are made for walking. :cool:
 
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PRMoon said:
I'm black and it's hideous. Still truth rings with the last two posters. I've been here for years and not once have I asked the forum what they thought of my style. I know what works for me and Im very confident in my choices. Not caring what other people think is a very important skill to have in your pocket. It goes a long wayI for self validation.
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exactly
in teh RSD blueprint tyler talks about most people "walking through life in a daze, loking to be told what to wear, what to watch and how to act by others"
this is whats happening here, also hes looking for validation (from random internet people)

now its important to have "style" that is congruant with your personaility/who you are
if you like something, if you say its cool, then it is cool, if you get it trying to fit in and be cool , its not cool, people will pick up on this validaiton seeking
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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