"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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what do u guys think of this shoe?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I wouldn't be caught dead in that shoe.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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CaptainJ

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It would be good if it didn't rise so high. It's trying to be plimsolls boots which is pretty sh1t.

Although it could look good with the right outfit.
 

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kingsam said:
why the hell are you asking people on a forum?

if you like it buy it
Agreed.

This shoe looks geared toward an urban style of dress and if I'm not mistaken, there are more white posters here who want you to conform to their own style of dress.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'm black and it's hideous. Still truth rings with the last two posters. I've been here for years and not once have I asked the forum what they thought of my style. I know what works for me and Im very confident in my choices. Not caring what other people think is a very important skill to have in your pocket. It goes a long wayI for self validation.
 

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Hideous.

Sometimes things are just ugly and people need to be told. That is ugly. In most cases I would agree with the other posters who said buy it if you like it. Now...not so much. keep trying young'n.
 

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I don't think it looks bad. Is it a comfortable shoe?

I pick shoes for comfort. I don't care much for style, to be honest. Pick what you like, what's comfortable. Shoes are made for walking. :cool:
 

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PRMoon said:
I'm black and it's hideous. Still truth rings with the last two posters. I've been here for years and not once have I asked the forum what they thought of my style. I know what works for me and Im very confident in my choices. Not caring what other people think is a very important skill to have in your pocket. It goes a long wayI for self validation.
exactly
in teh RSD blueprint tyler talks about most people "walking through life in a daze, loking to be told what to wear, what to watch and how to act by others"
this is whats happening here, also hes looking for validation (from random internet people)

now its important to have "style" that is congruant with your personaility/who you are
if you like something, if you say its cool, then it is cool, if you get it trying to fit in and be cool , its not cool, people will pick up on this validaiton seeking
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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