"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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what do u guys think of this shoe?

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I wouldn't be caught dead in that shoe.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It would be good if it didn't rise so high. It's trying to be plimsolls boots which is pretty sh1t.

Although it could look good with the right outfit.
 
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kingsam said:
why the hell are you asking people on a forum?

if you like it buy it
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Agreed.

This shoe looks geared toward an urban style of dress and if I'm not mistaken, there are more white posters here who want you to conform to their own style of dress.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm black and it's hideous. Still truth rings with the last two posters. I've been here for years and not once have I asked the forum what they thought of my style. I know what works for me and Im very confident in my choices. Not caring what other people think is a very important skill to have in your pocket. It goes a long wayI for self validation.
 
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Hideous.

Sometimes things are just ugly and people need to be told. That is ugly. In most cases I would agree with the other posters who said buy it if you like it. Now...not so much. keep trying young'n.
 
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I don't think it looks bad. Is it a comfortable shoe?

I pick shoes for comfort. I don't care much for style, to be honest. Pick what you like, what's comfortable. Shoes are made for walking. :cool:
 
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PRMoon said:
I'm black and it's hideous. Still truth rings with the last two posters. I've been here for years and not once have I asked the forum what they thought of my style. I know what works for me and Im very confident in my choices. Not caring what other people think is a very important skill to have in your pocket. It goes a long wayI for self validation.
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exactly
in teh RSD blueprint tyler talks about most people "walking through life in a daze, loking to be told what to wear, what to watch and how to act by others"
this is whats happening here, also hes looking for validation (from random internet people)

now its important to have "style" that is congruant with your personaility/who you are
if you like something, if you say its cool, then it is cool, if you get it trying to fit in and be cool , its not cool, people will pick up on this validaiton seeking
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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