"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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what do u guys think of this shoe?

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I wouldn't be caught dead in that shoe.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It would be good if it didn't rise so high. It's trying to be plimsolls boots which is pretty sh1t.

Although it could look good with the right outfit.
 
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kingsam said:
why the hell are you asking people on a forum?

if you like it buy it
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Agreed.

This shoe looks geared toward an urban style of dress and if I'm not mistaken, there are more white posters here who want you to conform to their own style of dress.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm black and it's hideous. Still truth rings with the last two posters. I've been here for years and not once have I asked the forum what they thought of my style. I know what works for me and Im very confident in my choices. Not caring what other people think is a very important skill to have in your pocket. It goes a long wayI for self validation.
 
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Hideous.

Sometimes things are just ugly and people need to be told. That is ugly. In most cases I would agree with the other posters who said buy it if you like it. Now...not so much. keep trying young'n.
 
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I don't think it looks bad. Is it a comfortable shoe?

I pick shoes for comfort. I don't care much for style, to be honest. Pick what you like, what's comfortable. Shoes are made for walking. :cool:
 
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PRMoon said:
I'm black and it's hideous. Still truth rings with the last two posters. I've been here for years and not once have I asked the forum what they thought of my style. I know what works for me and Im very confident in my choices. Not caring what other people think is a very important skill to have in your pocket. It goes a long wayI for self validation.
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exactly
in teh RSD blueprint tyler talks about most people "walking through life in a daze, loking to be told what to wear, what to watch and how to act by others"
this is whats happening here, also hes looking for validation (from random internet people)

now its important to have "style" that is congruant with your personaility/who you are
if you like something, if you say its cool, then it is cool, if you get it trying to fit in and be cool , its not cool, people will pick up on this validaiton seeking
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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