“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Finequasar3

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I've been casually seeing a girl for a couple of months. Everything has been great.

Last night I accidentally called her my friend. She didn't like the label and asked what we were. Long story short I pretty much had to ask her to be my gf to save it.

She said yes, but now that she got what she wanted she no longer seems keen on the idea. On top of this I dont want to be bf/gf, at least not yet.

Any ideas?
 
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Congrats now you have a gf. Who cares. Keep it fun, light and keep banging her. Nothing changes on your end. If you still want to eyeball the menu and look for an upgrade, knock yourself out.

It's only as serious as you let it be.
 
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Go for it, son. Regular vagina, why would you be worried of that?
 
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Finequasar3 said:
I've been casually seeing a girl for a couple of months. Everything has been great.

Last night I accidentally called her my friend. She didn't like the label and asked what we were. Long story short I pretty much had to ask her to be my gf to save it.

She said yes, but now that she got what she wanted she no longer seems keen on the idea. On top of this I dont want to be bf/gf, at least not yet.

Any ideas?
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keep it casual you're still two people having fun not romeo and juliet
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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you let her know that maybe you aren't the guy she wants to be with after all...a guy that just rolls over for her anytime she puts some pressure on you...not a good look bro.
 
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I haven't really spoke to her a whole lot since. I figure if I pretend it didn't happen she'll think back on it and realize it wasn't the sincere. I do like her but it's way to soon
 
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Thorninmyside said:
No, you didn't. You could have said you're 2 people having a good time and seeing where things go. GF status is a reward, not a hail mary.
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True. ****ing stupid. I was a little drunk and kept digging myself deeper.
 
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