"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What did I do? Some advice please

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I've been casually seeing a girl for a couple of months. Everything has been great.

Last night I accidentally called her my friend. She didn't like the label and asked what we were. Long story short I pretty much had to ask her to be my gf to save it.

She said yes, but now that she got what she wanted she no longer seems keen on the idea. On top of this I dont want to be bf/gf, at least not yet.

Any ideas?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Congrats now you have a gf. Who cares. Keep it fun, light and keep banging her. Nothing changes on your end. If you still want to eyeball the menu and look for an upgrade, knock yourself out.

It's only as serious as you let it be.
 
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Go for it, son. Regular vagina, why would you be worried of that?
 
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Finequasar3 said:
I've been casually seeing a girl for a couple of months. Everything has been great.

Last night I accidentally called her my friend. She didn't like the label and asked what we were. Long story short I pretty much had to ask her to be my gf to save it.

She said yes, but now that she got what she wanted she no longer seems keen on the idea. On top of this I dont want to be bf/gf, at least not yet.

Any ideas?
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keep it casual you're still two people having fun not romeo and juliet
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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you let her know that maybe you aren't the guy she wants to be with after all...a guy that just rolls over for her anytime she puts some pressure on you...not a good look bro.
 
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I haven't really spoke to her a whole lot since. I figure if I pretend it didn't happen she'll think back on it and realize it wasn't the sincere. I do like her but it's way to soon
 
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Thorninmyside said:
No, you didn't. You could have said you're 2 people having a good time and seeing where things go. GF status is a reward, not a hail mary.
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True. ****ing stupid. I was a little drunk and kept digging myself deeper.
 
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