"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What did I do? Some advice please

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I've been casually seeing a girl for a couple of months. Everything has been great.

Last night I accidentally called her my friend. She didn't like the label and asked what we were. Long story short I pretty much had to ask her to be my gf to save it.

She said yes, but now that she got what she wanted she no longer seems keen on the idea. On top of this I dont want to be bf/gf, at least not yet.

Any ideas?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Congrats now you have a gf. Who cares. Keep it fun, light and keep banging her. Nothing changes on your end. If you still want to eyeball the menu and look for an upgrade, knock yourself out.

It's only as serious as you let it be.
 
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Go for it, son. Regular vagina, why would you be worried of that?
 
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Finequasar3 said:
I've been casually seeing a girl for a couple of months. Everything has been great.

Last night I accidentally called her my friend. She didn't like the label and asked what we were. Long story short I pretty much had to ask her to be my gf to save it.

She said yes, but now that she got what she wanted she no longer seems keen on the idea. On top of this I dont want to be bf/gf, at least not yet.

Any ideas?
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keep it casual you're still two people having fun not romeo and juliet
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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you let her know that maybe you aren't the guy she wants to be with after all...a guy that just rolls over for her anytime she puts some pressure on you...not a good look bro.
 
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I haven't really spoke to her a whole lot since. I figure if I pretend it didn't happen she'll think back on it and realize it wasn't the sincere. I do like her but it's way to soon
 
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Thorninmyside said:
No, you didn't. You could have said you're 2 people having a good time and seeing where things go. GF status is a reward, not a hail mary.
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True. ****ing stupid. I was a little drunk and kept digging myself deeper.
 
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