What did I do? Some advice please

[Finequasar3]

I've been casually seeing a girl for a couple of months. Everything has been great.

Last night I accidentally called her my friend. She didn't like the label and asked what we were. Long story short I pretty much had to ask her to be my gf to save it.

She said yes, but now that she got what she wanted she no longer seems keen on the idea. On top of this I dont want to be bf/gf, at least not yet.

Any ideas?

 

[Thorninmyside]

I pretty much had to ask her to be my gf to save it.

No, you didn't. You could have said you're 2 people having a good time and seeing where things go. GF status is a reward, not a hail mary.

 

[Glassguy]

Congrats now you have a gf. Who cares. Keep it fun, light and keep banging her. Nothing changes on your end. If you still want to eyeball the menu and look for an upgrade, knock yourself out.

It's only as serious as you let it be.

 

[lizardking82]

Go for it, son. Regular vagina, why would you be worried of that?

 

[devilkingx2]

I've been casually seeing a girl for a couple of months. Everything has been great.

Last night I accidentally called her my friend. She didn't like the label and asked what we were. Long story short I pretty much had to ask her to be my gf to save it.

She said yes, but now that she got what she wanted she no longer seems keen on the idea. On top of this I dont want to be bf/gf, at least not yet.

Any ideas?

keep it casual you're still two people having fun not romeo and juliet

 

[marmel75]

you let her know that maybe you aren't the guy she wants to be with after all...a guy that just rolls over for her anytime she puts some pressure on you...not a good look bro.

 

[Finequasar3]

I haven't really spoke to her a whole lot since. I figure if I pretend it didn't happen she'll think back on it and realize it wasn't the sincere. I do like her but it's way to soon

 

[Finequasar3]

No, you didn't. You could have said you're 2 people having a good time and seeing where things go. GF status is a reward, not a hail mary.

True. ****ing stupid. I was a little drunk and kept digging myself deeper.

 

[Desdinova]

There's no taking it back now. Just leave it be and continue having fun in the relationship. Just avoid using the "L" word for the time being.