You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I've never been to India but i've dated Indian and bangladeshi girls. They're smart, man. They're a ****ing sharp group of people. And you're right, they are very prettyGamePlan said:I think Indian women are pretty, but what's life like in India? I know they have some big (huge!) cities, but would it be fun to live in such a place if you're the kind of person who's into modern cities, etc. or is India still very "rural"?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
America lol. Well every asian country will have their women like this, it is a matter of being able to find them.GamePlan said:So in what country would I find asian women like this beauty:
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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
My experience in PI is that it's always partly gonna be money but a lot of it is status. A white guy is widely considered a high status boyfriend and the girls will treat you accordingly.GamePlan said:Actually, I'm not into having a ton of sex with a lot of different women (believe it or not), I'm more of a LTR kind of guy...and I wouldnt want girls to be attracted to me because Im white and considered wealthy becuase of being white or something.
Ya see above. They like the bigger noses, bright colored eyes, pale skin and so on. Look at the ads their media throws at them - even the pinoy models and actors tend (strongly) to look distinctly Caucasian.GamePlan said:But apparently thats not the only reason why many asian women are into us white guys.
Just to be clear, AFAIK Spain is not part of Latin America but rather Southern Europe.GamePlan said:What you said about the phillipines is very interesting, though, because I seriously know a guy who's half flip and half-white and he looks like a latino!
Wow this is not only racist but sort of sexist. These girls are fully functional human adults last time I looked.Michele said:... what's making me mad is white guys preying on Filipinas.
Again in my experience filipinas EXPECT a fast track to the LTR and a lot of guys don't explicitly shut them down in the first 5 minutes, but that's not really 'manipulation'.Michele said:... it's not technically that, it's that you guys have your own "race", but prefer going the easy route and manipulating girls who think you want to marry them.
I just flat out don't understand your point here, sorry.Michele said:No offense, but maybe you'd all understand what I mean if white-American women weren't stereotyped in a bad way. Asian women, for the most part, aren't AS "westernized", let alone "Americanized". For the most part, white women are superficial and date white guys only.
I'm not bitter, I could get women of any race if I chose to... but I still have my opinion on it.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
GamePlan said:Just curious, because going to a place in Asia where English is spoken would be great ....
You have to remember that Vietnam is still a third-world country that opened up basically in 1986, but really started changing only about 2000. So now there are lots of modern, upscale places to live, eat, and go out - but it's not really a modern country, not yet. It has modern sections, at least in Saigon and Hanoi, but they are pretty small. Of course if you have enough money you may never notice.GamePlan said:What's Vietnam like as a country, though? Are there any modern cities such as in Japan and Korea, etc.?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.