"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What country has the hottest asian women?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think Indian women are pretty, but what's life like in India? I know they have some big (huge!) cities, but would it be fun to live in such a place if you're the kind of person who's into modern cities, etc. or is India still very "rural"?
 

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GamePlan said:
I think Indian women are pretty, but what's life like in India? I know they have some big (huge!) cities, but would it be fun to live in such a place if you're the kind of person who's into modern cities, etc. or is India still very "rural"?
I've never been to India but i've dated Indian and bangladeshi girls. They're smart, man. They're a ****ing sharp group of people. And you're right, they are very pretty :)
 

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Kazakhstan...the women are "very nice" and give up the vagine easily
 

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Thailand or Phillipines IMHO because of how they can have a mix of voluptuous bodies compared to other counties like China and Japan, and yet have the most beautiful eyes and petite statures. I've seen some pinay women, another name for phillipinas, with amazing j-lo asses.
 

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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

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Sorry, I should have put it more clearly: I was wondering what Asian countries have women with that skin complexion/exoticness. Chinese/Japanese/Korean girls probably look different.
 

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Oh I see, Philippines and Thailand are the first two that came mind but don't overlook Hawaii, I know some Japanese and Korean women from there that have that "Islander" skin complexion and are absolutely beautiful. Other than those I don't know much else. Well I know a lot of beautiful Cambodian women here in America, I'm not sure if you'd like to venture out there in their home country terms of women, I never hear anything about them having beautiful women.
 

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I have been traveling in asia for months and I can give you a good idea of where the hottest chicks are.

Chengdu, China.
HK
Manilla
Bangkok
Seol
Kyoto
Fukuwaka(sp?)
Tokyo (and area)


It really depends on your taste. I personally love Chengdu women. Spicy food and spicy women. I think it's kind of pathetic how taboo interracial dating is in some places. You can't control who the women in your race date, so why even get mad about it.

People should be able to date who ever they want for what ever reason they want. I should also point out that people rarely point out the opposite of the percieved stereotype. Yes a lot of white guys date asian women, but then doesn't that also mean that a lot of asian women are dating white guys? Funny how people rarely think that asian women have a white guy fetish.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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GamePlan said:
Actually, I'm not into having a ton of sex with a lot of different women (believe it or not ;)), I'm more of a LTR kind of guy...and I wouldnt want girls to be attracted to me because Im white and considered wealthy becuase of being white or something.
My experience in PI is that it's always partly gonna be money but a lot of it is status. A white guy is widely considered a high status boyfriend and the girls will treat you accordingly.

Also these girls almost ALWAYS are gonna want to marry you. Tomorrow. If you want a sweet feminine girl for an LTR this part of the world is hard to beat.


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But apparently thats not the only reason why many asian women are into us white guys.
Ya see above. They like the bigger noses, bright colored eyes, pale skin and so on. Look at the ads their media throws at them - even the pinoy models and actors tend (strongly) to look distinctly Caucasian.


GamePlan said:
What you said about the phillipines is very interesting, though, because I seriously know a guy who's half flip and half-white and he looks like a latino!
Just to be clear, AFAIK Spain is not part of Latin America but rather Southern Europe.




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... what's making me mad is white guys preying on Filipinas.
Wow this is not only racist but sort of sexist. These girls are fully functional human adults last time I looked.

In my experience white guys have to watch out for predatory filipinas a lot more than the other way around. Most white guys I know in PI are pretty clear and honest about what they want and have no trouble finding accommodation.


Michele said:
... it's not technically that, it's that you guys have your own "race", but prefer going the easy route and manipulating girls who think you want to marry them.
Again in my experience filipinas EXPECT a fast track to the LTR and a lot of guys don't explicitly shut them down in the first 5 minutes, but that's not really 'manipulation'.


Michele said:
No offense, but maybe you'd all understand what I mean if white-American women weren't stereotyped in a bad way. Asian women, for the most part, aren't AS "westernized", let alone "Americanized". For the most part, white women are superficial and date white guys only.

I'm not bitter, I could get women of any race if I chose to... but I still have my opinion on it.
I just flat out don't understand your point here, sorry.
 

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im half korean... so im biased
i was in s korea last summer and was all over the place, went to osan.... omg target rich, and its a city built around a base so pretty much all the girls can speak english and they are gorgeous
i want to move there
 

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Hey bobbinika,

when you say pretty much all the girls can speak English, because it's built around a base (I assume an air base?), is that something you've actually experienced (as in spoken with multiple girls and realized all of them could speak some English) or is it more of a guess?

Just curious, because going to a place in Asia where English is spoken would be great (and this might give me more ideas on how to find places in foreign countries where English is spoken - dont get me wrong I can speak 3 languages of which I learned two, but it takes so much time that I can't really learn the language of every country I plan to taking a trip to some time).
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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GamePlan said:
Just curious, because going to a place in Asia where English is spoken would be great ....

Again, points go to the Philippines. The huge US presence since the Spanish-American war has left a legacy of English.
 

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In Vietnam almost everyone knows a few words of English, but even people who have been studying it for years can be pretty hard to understand.
 

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What's Vietnam like as a country, though? Are there any modern cities such as in Japan and Korea, etc.?

I've been a sucker for exotic girls, I guess (but mostly the latina kind), but I'm think I'm starting to fall for this kind of woman:

- Nicole Scherzinger
- Tia Carrere (if anyone remembers her)
- and this woman:

http://l.yimg.com/img.tv.yahoo.com/tv/us/img/site/57/51/0000035751_20061115144734.jpg

(funny thing is all are hawaiian+phillipina(+...) if I remember correctly)

I'm really starting to like asian features on exotic girls!

The question is just where can I find these kind of women??? Obviously not here in Germany ;). I also like modern places...but are there any modern places in Asia where there are women like that? Maybe Singapore or Kuala Lumpur or Hong Kong (doubt it)? Any other cities that are known as melting pots of cultures in Asia?
 

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What's Vietnam like as a country, though? Are there any modern cities such as in Japan and Korea, etc.?
You have to remember that Vietnam is still a third-world country that opened up basically in 1986, but really started changing only about 2000. So now there are lots of modern, upscale places to live, eat, and go out - but it's not really a modern country, not yet. It has modern sections, at least in Saigon and Hanoi, but they are pretty small. Of course if you have enough money you may never notice.

As for the girls, there's not a ton of ethnic mixing like you might find in the Philippines or some other places. The overwhelming majority of people are of the Viet ethnic group, and this tends toward 'classic' east asian features like you might find in china. Very beautiful, but good luck finding a pair of tits and an ass with two hands and a flashlight (not that I haven't tried).
 

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Haha...but..you know what I find strange? I know a vietnamese girl here in Germany and two vietnamese guys (thus two different families), and all of them happen to look pretty exotic to me, or well they all have very tan skin (guess thats not the norm, though).

I assume Vietnam isnt really the place for me, but thanks for the input, nevertheless
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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