She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You f*cking read a LOT!gösta berling said:What books worked for you
The book of pook - Pook(ebook)
How to become an alpha male - John Alexander
Be relentless - David X(ebook)
Foundations - Tyler Durden(DVD)
Nice guys and players - Rom Wills(Basic stuff)
Arnold: The education of a bodybuilder - Arnold Schwarzenegger
Action! Nothing happens until something moves - Robert Ringer(Chapter 1 is excellent)
What to say when you talk to yourself - Shad Helmstetter
The way of the superior man - David Deida
The master's guide to cunnilingus - Vanessa Ryan
The power of your subconscious mind - Joseph Murphy
Will power and self discipline - Remez Sasson(ebook)
what books did not??
The mystery method - Mystery
The art of seduction - Robert Greene
Machiavellian's guide to womanizing - Nick Casanova
From the first date to the bedroom - Butch Mazzuca
The procrastination workbook - William Knaus
Awaken the giant within - Anthony Robbins
NLP: The new technology of achievement - Steve Andreas, and Charles Faulkner
The complete a**hole's guide to handling chicks - Dan Indante and Karl Marks
Double your dating - David DeAngelo(ebook)
The game - Neill Strauss
The layguide - Tony Clink
How to be the jerk women love - F.J.Shark
Self-discipline in 10 days - Theodore Bryant
God is a woman - Ian Coburn
The system - Roy Valentine(Nice recipes though)
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Sorry to unearth an ancient thread, but I just busted out laughing at how Poonani Maker's first suggestion on a book to pick up women was how to make 100 million dollars. lmao.Poonani Maker said:Daniel Pena - Your First 100 Million *the hardcore truth about making BIG money
I think that Secrets of the Alpha Male by Carlos Xuma is a much better insight into the idea of becoming an Alpha Male. Not to mention his audio CDs that go along with it.snowdog said:!!!!!How to become an alpha male - John Alexander!!!!!
the only one you'll need. It is different from anything I've read, and it's the perfect size. 200-300 pages or so as I remember. I went through it in under a week.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.