I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You f*cking read a LOT!gösta berling said:What books worked for you
The book of pook - Pook(ebook)
How to become an alpha male - John Alexander
Be relentless - David X(ebook)
Foundations - Tyler Durden(DVD)
Nice guys and players - Rom Wills(Basic stuff)
Arnold: The education of a bodybuilder - Arnold Schwarzenegger
Action! Nothing happens until something moves - Robert Ringer(Chapter 1 is excellent)
What to say when you talk to yourself - Shad Helmstetter
The way of the superior man - David Deida
The master's guide to cunnilingus - Vanessa Ryan
The power of your subconscious mind - Joseph Murphy
Will power and self discipline - Remez Sasson(ebook)
what books did not??
The mystery method - Mystery
The art of seduction - Robert Greene
Machiavellian's guide to womanizing - Nick Casanova
From the first date to the bedroom - Butch Mazzuca
The procrastination workbook - William Knaus
Awaken the giant within - Anthony Robbins
NLP: The new technology of achievement - Steve Andreas, and Charles Faulkner
The complete a**hole's guide to handling chicks - Dan Indante and Karl Marks
Double your dating - David DeAngelo(ebook)
The game - Neill Strauss
The layguide - Tony Clink
How to be the jerk women love - F.J.Shark
Self-discipline in 10 days - Theodore Bryant
God is a woman - Ian Coburn
The system - Roy Valentine(Nice recipes though)
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Sorry to unearth an ancient thread, but I just busted out laughing at how Poonani Maker's first suggestion on a book to pick up women was how to make 100 million dollars. lmao.Poonani Maker said:Daniel Pena - Your First 100 Million *the hardcore truth about making BIG money
I think that Secrets of the Alpha Male by Carlos Xuma is a much better insight into the idea of becoming an Alpha Male. Not to mention his audio CDs that go along with it.snowdog said:!!!!!How to become an alpha male - John Alexander!!!!!
the only one you'll need. It is different from anything I've read, and it's the perfect size. 200-300 pages or so as I remember. I went through it in under a week.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.