You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You f*cking read a LOT!gösta berling said:What books worked for you
The book of pook - Pook(ebook)
How to become an alpha male - John Alexander
Be relentless - David X(ebook)
Foundations - Tyler Durden(DVD)
Nice guys and players - Rom Wills(Basic stuff)
Arnold: The education of a bodybuilder - Arnold Schwarzenegger
Action! Nothing happens until something moves - Robert Ringer(Chapter 1 is excellent)
What to say when you talk to yourself - Shad Helmstetter
The way of the superior man - David Deida
The master's guide to cunnilingus - Vanessa Ryan
The power of your subconscious mind - Joseph Murphy
Will power and self discipline - Remez Sasson(ebook)
what books did not??
The mystery method - Mystery
The art of seduction - Robert Greene
Machiavellian's guide to womanizing - Nick Casanova
From the first date to the bedroom - Butch Mazzuca
The procrastination workbook - William Knaus
Awaken the giant within - Anthony Robbins
NLP: The new technology of achievement - Steve Andreas, and Charles Faulkner
The complete a**hole's guide to handling chicks - Dan Indante and Karl Marks
Double your dating - David DeAngelo(ebook)
The game - Neill Strauss
The layguide - Tony Clink
How to be the jerk women love - F.J.Shark
Self-discipline in 10 days - Theodore Bryant
God is a woman - Ian Coburn
The system - Roy Valentine(Nice recipes though)
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Sorry to unearth an ancient thread, but I just busted out laughing at how Poonani Maker's first suggestion on a book to pick up women was how to make 100 million dollars. lmao.Poonani Maker said:Daniel Pena - Your First 100 Million *the hardcore truth about making BIG money
I think that Secrets of the Alpha Male by Carlos Xuma is a much better insight into the idea of becoming an Alpha Male. Not to mention his audio CDs that go along with it.snowdog said:!!!!!How to become an alpha male - John Alexander!!!!!
the only one you'll need. It is different from anything I've read, and it's the perfect size. 200-300 pages or so as I remember. I went through it in under a week.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.