"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What books worked for you and what books did not?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
^ Franco is a psychologist who is also a PUA. So the first 100 pages or so of his book - cover exactly what triggers women emotionally, why it triggers them, and how to trigger them. I really had an eye-opening experience reading his work; it improved my abilities with women and understanding what they wanted tenfold!
Daniel Rose - The Sex God Method
^ For people looking to have long term partners. Teaches you how to lock down a woman through amazing sex (you can almost not care about passing sh!t test, etc. as you really get inside a woman's head doing this stuff). Teaches you the 4 elements of being a good alpha male in bed, which is : domination, emotion, emmersion, and creativity.
the only one you'll need. It is different from anything I've read, and it's the perfect size. 200-300 pages or so as I remember. I went through it in under a week.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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-Jay Abraham (this is marketing/sales). His stuff is killer....but you have to read/listen to it a lot, takes repetition.
He's said...(paraphrasing) "its taken me 25 years working X hours a day to learn what I know...to think you can learn it in one reading is delusional".
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And some other seminars that are more advanced. "How to get from where you are to where you want to be" is excellent. A 6 week coaching course. He walks you through the first steps in forming a business strategy. Then through his methodology. Then at the end, he finalizes your optimal strategy. I've never heard anything like it in business or in marketing. It's so clear and powerful. Probably his best course.
-Tony Robbins, NLP, etc I've gotten away from. I was on a Tony Robbins kick for awhile a few years ago...did personal power, UPW (his seminar). Too hyped up, too "must" oriented. I dont work like that. Maybe for some people it works. But havent seen anything new or exciting in personal development/nlp.
-If you want to be really smart and well read, theres a reading list in the back of Charlie Mungers book, Poor Charlies Alamanck. Munger is Warren Buffetts partner and a billionaire.
It includes Cialdini's Influence, a bunch of books...books about Darwin, some big biographies of Rockefeller, Ben Franklin.
Guns, Germs and Steel. Pretty much a must read. Top 15 or 20 worldly books.
How the Scots invented the modern world. A lot of worldly books you might not see otherwise. I've read maybe 8 from his list. But a good worldly education. Impress your friends, haha.
-Investing/economy/finance. Mostly Jim Rogers.
He predicted alot of his current mess. Some finance guys either get too technical, too crazy/religious (like gold bugs), or have too much self interest to be objective (peter schiff, who I think is generally right, but too much self interest/promotion). Then there are others who have mised the boat entirely (they're too US centric). Barton Biggs, John Bogle. They tell you to buy mutual funds, low cost! But that doesnt do you much good in a bear market, or flat market.
The investing world gets interesting as you get older, have more money, and understand the market better. There are always opportunities. So always keep learning.
And Snowball, the hot Warren Buffett book. Bought it, havent read all of it (900 pages!!). But any 5 star Buffett book is a must read. You'd be crazy to pass it up.
Havent seen much else lately.
phatboi408
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Neil Strauss (Style)- The Game
So many books out there. These are the ones that I keep reading
If anyone want any books, let me know. Just message me.
Really, check this one out!
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I think that Secrets of the Alpha Male by Carlos Xuma is a much better insight into the idea of becoming an Alpha Male. Not to mention his audio CDs that go along with it.snowdog said:
Xuma has many books, CDs, and DVDs that are all very amazing and helpful. The guy is great. He makes you feel like he's your best friend the entire time.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.