You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You f*cking read a LOT!gösta berling said:What books worked for you
The book of pook - Pook(ebook)
How to become an alpha male - John Alexander
Be relentless - David X(ebook)
Foundations - Tyler Durden(DVD)
Nice guys and players - Rom Wills(Basic stuff)
Arnold: The education of a bodybuilder - Arnold Schwarzenegger
Action! Nothing happens until something moves - Robert Ringer(Chapter 1 is excellent)
What to say when you talk to yourself - Shad Helmstetter
The way of the superior man - David Deida
The master's guide to cunnilingus - Vanessa Ryan
The power of your subconscious mind - Joseph Murphy
Will power and self discipline - Remez Sasson(ebook)
what books did not??
The mystery method - Mystery
The art of seduction - Robert Greene
Machiavellian's guide to womanizing - Nick Casanova
From the first date to the bedroom - Butch Mazzuca
The procrastination workbook - William Knaus
Awaken the giant within - Anthony Robbins
NLP: The new technology of achievement - Steve Andreas, and Charles Faulkner
The complete a**hole's guide to handling chicks - Dan Indante and Karl Marks
Double your dating - David DeAngelo(ebook)
The game - Neill Strauss
The layguide - Tony Clink
How to be the jerk women love - F.J.Shark
Self-discipline in 10 days - Theodore Bryant
God is a woman - Ian Coburn
The system - Roy Valentine(Nice recipes though)
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Sorry to unearth an ancient thread, but I just busted out laughing at how Poonani Maker's first suggestion on a book to pick up women was how to make 100 million dollars. lmao.Poonani Maker said:Daniel Pena - Your First 100 Million *the hardcore truth about making BIG money
I think that Secrets of the Alpha Male by Carlos Xuma is a much better insight into the idea of becoming an Alpha Male. Not to mention his audio CDs that go along with it.snowdog said:!!!!!How to become an alpha male - John Alexander!!!!!
the only one you'll need. It is different from anything I've read, and it's the perfect size. 200-300 pages or so as I remember. I went through it in under a week.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.