You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You f*cking read a LOT!gösta berling said:What books worked for you
The book of pook - Pook(ebook)
How to become an alpha male - John Alexander
Be relentless - David X(ebook)
Foundations - Tyler Durden(DVD)
Nice guys and players - Rom Wills(Basic stuff)
Arnold: The education of a bodybuilder - Arnold Schwarzenegger
Action! Nothing happens until something moves - Robert Ringer(Chapter 1 is excellent)
What to say when you talk to yourself - Shad Helmstetter
The way of the superior man - David Deida
The master's guide to cunnilingus - Vanessa Ryan
The power of your subconscious mind - Joseph Murphy
Will power and self discipline - Remez Sasson(ebook)
what books did not??
The mystery method - Mystery
The art of seduction - Robert Greene
Machiavellian's guide to womanizing - Nick Casanova
From the first date to the bedroom - Butch Mazzuca
The procrastination workbook - William Knaus
Awaken the giant within - Anthony Robbins
NLP: The new technology of achievement - Steve Andreas, and Charles Faulkner
The complete a**hole's guide to handling chicks - Dan Indante and Karl Marks
Double your dating - David DeAngelo(ebook)
The game - Neill Strauss
The layguide - Tony Clink
How to be the jerk women love - F.J.Shark
Self-discipline in 10 days - Theodore Bryant
God is a woman - Ian Coburn
The system - Roy Valentine(Nice recipes though)
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Sorry to unearth an ancient thread, but I just busted out laughing at how Poonani Maker's first suggestion on a book to pick up women was how to make 100 million dollars. lmao.Poonani Maker said:Daniel Pena - Your First 100 Million *the hardcore truth about making BIG money
I think that Secrets of the Alpha Male by Carlos Xuma is a much better insight into the idea of becoming an Alpha Male. Not to mention his audio CDs that go along with it.snowdog said:!!!!!How to become an alpha male - John Alexander!!!!!
the only one you'll need. It is different from anything I've read, and it's the perfect size. 200-300 pages or so as I remember. I went through it in under a week.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.