"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What avenues of pick up have you abandoned as being useless in your opinion?
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
wifehunter
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Day game sucks if you go out to day game. It's very low volume unless your in a busy downtown area. I found that it's better to just go out and run your errands. If you spot a cutie, then approach.
Night game is what I've been really getting into now that I'm not afraid to approach. I actually have wings now and I've been having a blast going out. A lot of the numbers I get don't go anywhere, but I like that it's high volume and very fun.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Night Clubs without a doubt. I honestly think in today's market, it's BEST to go to Night Clubs with either a social group (and dance with girls or a girl within said social group) or go with a girl individually.
The strategy of going to the Night Clubs with a group of dudes or just yourself, then hitting on random girls within the Night Club, is just a bad strategy today.
RangerMIke
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TheGambino
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It's just my thing. Plus I know a lot of people in my region, so I always got social proof and I'm a party animal, girls look around see all the guys being boring f*cks and then see me dance and have fun, they love to join in. From that point I quickly approach, isolate and kiss close.
Can't really think of an avenue I would abandon, almost every environment could be a good situation to flirt and close imo. I flirt and approach in every situation. When I was lean and worked out a lot a couple of months ago my self esteem reached the roof, I would approach and close every girl I liked, now I got a bit lazy due work and school and Im not as hard as the summer. Picking the gym up again from tonight on and will report back with some nice reports soon.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
On Line Dating.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Depending on age and or what you've got going on in life/ holds more priority. Not everyone is going to live on OLD, go to clubs or walk around on the street doing random approaches.
Like every other situation.. it comes down to VALUE.
The problem with night clubs is most women are just there to attention wh0re or be a slut. The TRASH ratio is higher with the exception of the very young girls (18-22). Its also where men tend to act the most DESPERATE.
Because of the high level of attention women receive, they are much less open to MOST guys that talk to them unless the guy shows superior VALUE to all her other options. Its been proven that women become more selective in environments where they get more male attention.
You can pull in clubs if you have some kind of competitive advantage. Problem is most guys DON'T. They are just another thirsty dude with mediocre game, mediocre looks and mediocre finances lol. Nothing for a woman to get "excited" about.
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I stopped cold approaching in malls after I closed a 16 year old by mistake lol.
Maybe I'll try again now that holidays are coming up and more HOT women will be flooding shopping centers.