You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
They all have a purpose in the game. Relying on any one method is a downfall, as is counting out any of themWhich avenue of pickup have you tried and abandoned as either useless or a waste of your time as you have more success elsewhere or better things to do?
Day game?
Social Circle?
OLD?
Clubs?
Anything where I have to go 'out of my way' has been noneffective. So clubs and OLD are out. Day game, in my case...everyday normal stuff like stores and shopping malls is clearly a better option. I can talk to anyone. Dead easy, and fun!!!Which avenue of pickup have you tried and abandoned as either useless or a waste of your time as you have more success elsewhere or better things to do?
Day game?
Social Circle?
OLD?
Clubs?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Night Clubs without a doubt. I honestly think in today's market, it's BEST to go to Night Clubs with either a social group (and dance with girls or a girl within said social group) or go with a girl individually.Which avenue of pickup have you tried and abandoned as either useless or a waste of your time as you have more success elsewhere or better things to do?
Day game?
Social Circle?
OLD?
Clubs?
On Line Dating.What does OLD stand for?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Depending on age and or what you've got going on in life/ holds more priority. Not everyone is going to live on OLD, go to clubs or walk around on the street doing random approaches.They all have a purpose in the game. Relying on any one method is a downfall, as is counting out any of them
Like every other situation.. it comes down to VALUE.Night Clubs without a doubt. I honestly think in today's market, it's BEST to go to Night Clubs with either a social group (and dance with girls or a girl within said social group) or go with a girl individually.
The strategy of going to the Night Clubs with a group of dudes or just yourself, then hitting on random girls within the Night Club, is just a bad strategy today.
I stopped cold approaching in malls after I closed a 16 year old by mistake lol.Yeah, I have done very well in malls recently (just happened to be there). I think the mall employees don't see too many good looking guys there so they can be very open and even aggressive. It's a good feeling, it's almost like how a hot girl feels in a bar.