TheInfamousCBear
Master Don Juan
Mobb Deep and Cormega - Crime Connection part 2
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What are you listening to?
- Thread starter tactic
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Black Bahindian
Senior Don Juan
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Usher - Burn
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
il_duce
Master Don Juan
Kanye West - Get Em High
TheInfamousCBear
Master Don Juan
Nas - K.I.S.S.I.N.G blended with Cant Nobody
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Black Bahindian
Senior Don Juan
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Word. That's another good blend sample by Kanye West:Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
Nas - K.I.S.S.I.N.G blended with Cant Nobody
Back on topic: Twista - Adrenaline Rush
amazing cdOriginally posted by oakraiderz2
The Mars Volta-Cicatriz ESP
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
TheInfamousCBear
Master Don Juan
Nas - My worst enemy
Dimebag_Darrell
Banned
Black Flag - T.V. Party
Artist: Sevendust
Song: Enemy
Step up to me, step up to me
You wanna be a big-time player? It's not to be
Look at all the snide-ass, actin like a wise-ass
I'll fuk up yer face!!! (and you'll never look back!)
Not so much a DJ song, but the ultimate ANTI-AFC song.
Song: Enemy
Step up to me, step up to me
You wanna be a big-time player? It's not to be
Look at all the snide-ass, actin like a wise-ass
I'll fuk up yer face!!! (and you'll never look back!)
Not so much a DJ song, but the ultimate ANTI-AFC song.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.