TheInfamousCBear
Master Don Juan
Mobb Deep and Cormega - Crime Connection part 2
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
What are you listening to?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Black Bahindian
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Usher - Burn
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
il_duce
Master Don Juan
Kanye West - Get Em High
TheInfamousCBear
Master Don Juan
Nas - K.I.S.S.I.N.G blended with Cant Nobody
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Black Bahindian
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Word. That's another good blend sample by Kanye West:Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
Nas - K.I.S.S.I.N.G blended with Cant Nobody
Back on topic: Twista - Adrenaline Rush
amazing cdOriginally posted by oakraiderz2
The Mars Volta-Cicatriz ESP
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
TheInfamousCBear
Master Don Juan
Nas - My worst enemy
Dimebag_Darrell
Banned
Black Flag - T.V. Party
Artist: Sevendust
Song: Enemy
Step up to me, step up to me
You wanna be a big-time player? It's not to be
Look at all the snide-ass, actin like a wise-ass
I'll fuk up yer face!!! (and you'll never look back!)
Not so much a DJ song, but the ultimate ANTI-AFC song.
Song: Enemy
Step up to me, step up to me
You wanna be a big-time player? It's not to be
Look at all the snide-ass, actin like a wise-ass
I'll fuk up yer face!!! (and you'll never look back!)
Not so much a DJ song, but the ultimate ANTI-AFC song.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.