PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
I know none of the Artists or songs listed on this entire thread! Is this good or bad! 
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What are you listening to?
- Thread starter tactic
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
GlutusMaximus86
Master Don Juan
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LOL If you are being serious: You prolly just have a different taste in music that's all.
Song I'm currently listening to:
Shine On You Crazy Diamond (Parts 1-9) - Pink Floyd
TheInfamousCBear
Master Don Juan
Jae Mills, Camron, and T.I - Oh No remix
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Spike Shinizzle
Don Juan
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- Mar 27, 2004
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Dream Theater - The Glass Prison
Dimebag_Darrell
Banned
Wasted Youth - Problem Child
Serg897
Master Don Juan
Village People - Macho Man
The Walkmen - Everyone Who Pretended to Like Me is Gone
Modest Mouse - The Moon & Antarctica
!!! - Louden Up Now
Franz Ferdinand - Franz Ferdinand
Sonic Youth - Daydream Nation
Stars - Heart
Those are albums BTW not songs.
Modest Mouse - The Moon & Antarctica
!!! - Louden Up Now
Franz Ferdinand - Franz Ferdinand
Sonic Youth - Daydream Nation
Stars - Heart
Those are albums BTW not songs.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
Papa Roach - Broken Home My fave song.
My fave song.CableLight
Master Don Juan
Since this visit to the site...
Incubus - Talk Shows on Mute
Finch - Ender
Primus - Electric Uncle Sam
Guster - Demons
Red Hot Chili Peppers - Porcelin
Primus - Welcome to this World
Incubus - Talk Shows on Mute
Finch - Ender
Primus - Electric Uncle Sam
Guster - Demons
Red Hot Chili Peppers - Porcelin
Primus - Welcome to this World
Chaos-Knight
Don Juan
These Cd's recently:
Megadeth - countdown to extinction
Fear Factory- Obsolete
Offspring - Smash
Megadeth - countdown to extinction
Fear Factory- Obsolete
Offspring - Smash
Capi Crimini
Banned
Same here... sadly.. Most of them are rap... Actually I know the artists not the songs... I hate rap besides Eminem. I can dance to it, but listening just makes me tired. It all sounds so stupid. Same with Action Movies, they put me to sleep... I can only watch indies that carry subliminal points and now I'm actually driffting back to books again. T.V.'s getting really borring... I'm reading Dante again... Besides Eminem I enoy the
fur elise
D12- revelation
Eminem- Amityvil
Em- Fight Music(I have a funny story about this but that can hold)
Em-Purple Pills(Hills) Them things are fun
Em-Marshall Mathers
Em-Drugs are Bad
Pretty much anything em except his never stuff... i like his Underground **** and his original music.
I hate 50... he's too played up and he's really not that good. He does have an okay voice...
I got out of rap because there's not that much original kick ass lyrics going on.
Anyway... Sides Em I love the Classical Italian ****... Makes me feel all GodFathery.lol
Then Dido... She's kickass. I like her ****. Specially her CD Life for Rent. I love #8 I think.... where she's comming back to her flat. nough said
Abeeda.
Capi
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Capi Crimini
Banned
I've known about Underground **** for a while... I've been listening to it on and off for two years now...
I've heard of a few of the above... Personally I still prefer Eminem... personal pref. I just relate to him more then most fo the underground ****.
Ken785
Master Don Juan
Fat Joe- King Of N.Y.
Sickest rap song ever!!!
Sickest rap song ever!!!
Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
THE ONLY Rap songs that I like are:
2Pac - You can't see me
Blackstar - Respiration
Deltron 3030 - Mastermind
Eminem - Our house
MOP - Cold as ice (Cover of Foreigners version)
Notorious BIG - Notorious Thugz
I'm mainly a Rock/Metal/Punk guy.
I only like those songs 'cause I heard them in a rollerblading video and thought they sounded pretty cool. (Yeah I blade, and what. F u skaters who got a problem with it.)
2Pac - You can't see me
Blackstar - Respiration
Deltron 3030 - Mastermind
Eminem - Our house
MOP - Cold as ice (Cover of Foreigners version)
Notorious BIG - Notorious Thugz
I'm mainly a Rock/Metal/Punk guy.
I only like those songs 'cause I heard them in a rollerblading video and thought they sounded pretty cool. (Yeah I blade, and what. F u skaters who got a problem with it.)
Hallucinogen - LSD (live mix)
Am I the only goa/psychedelic trance fan here? I guess underground techno/trance/electronic music isn't so big in America eh? Kind of surprised to see Yahel get a mention though.
Am I the only goa/psychedelic trance fan here? I guess underground techno/trance/electronic music isn't so big in America eh? Kind of surprised to see Yahel get a mention though.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.