TheInfamousCBear
Master Don Juan
Mobb Deep and Cormega - Crime Connection part 2
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
What are you listening to?
- Thread starter tactic
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Black Bahindian
Senior Don Juan
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Usher - Burn
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
il_duce
Master Don Juan
Kanye West - Get Em High
TheInfamousCBear
Master Don Juan
Nas - K.I.S.S.I.N.G blended with Cant Nobody
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Black Bahindian
Senior Don Juan
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Word. That's another good blend sample by Kanye West:Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
Nas - K.I.S.S.I.N.G blended with Cant Nobody
Back on topic: Twista - Adrenaline Rush
amazing cdOriginally posted by oakraiderz2
The Mars Volta-Cicatriz ESP
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
TheInfamousCBear
Master Don Juan
Nas - My worst enemy
Dimebag_Darrell
Banned
Black Flag - T.V. Party
Artist: Sevendust
Song: Enemy
Step up to me, step up to me
You wanna be a big-time player? It's not to be
Look at all the snide-ass, actin like a wise-ass
I'll fuk up yer face!!! (and you'll never look back!)
Not so much a DJ song, but the ultimate ANTI-AFC song.
Song: Enemy
Step up to me, step up to me
You wanna be a big-time player? It's not to be
Look at all the snide-ass, actin like a wise-ass
I'll fuk up yer face!!! (and you'll never look back!)
Not so much a DJ song, but the ultimate ANTI-AFC song.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.