TheInfamousCBear
Master Don Juan
Mobb Deep and Cormega - Crime Connection part 2
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What are you listening to?
- Thread starter tactic
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Black Bahindian
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Usher - Burn
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
il_duce
Master Don Juan
Kanye West - Get Em High
TheInfamousCBear
Master Don Juan
Nas - K.I.S.S.I.N.G blended with Cant Nobody
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Black Bahindian
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Word. That's another good blend sample by Kanye West:Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
Nas - K.I.S.S.I.N.G blended with Cant Nobody
Back on topic: Twista - Adrenaline Rush
amazing cdOriginally posted by oakraiderz2
The Mars Volta-Cicatriz ESP
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
TheInfamousCBear
Master Don Juan
Nas - My worst enemy
Dimebag_Darrell
Banned
Black Flag - T.V. Party
Artist: Sevendust
Song: Enemy
Step up to me, step up to me
You wanna be a big-time player? It's not to be
Look at all the snide-ass, actin like a wise-ass
I'll fuk up yer face!!! (and you'll never look back!)
Not so much a DJ song, but the ultimate ANTI-AFC song.
Song: Enemy
Step up to me, step up to me
You wanna be a big-time player? It's not to be
Look at all the snide-ass, actin like a wise-ass
I'll fuk up yer face!!! (and you'll never look back!)
Not so much a DJ song, but the ultimate ANTI-AFC song.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.