"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What are you getting your lady for friend Valentines day

Sonny Knight

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:cheer: wrap up some unpaid bills in a box and give it to her:cheer:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i'll give her a nice dose of my little self.....gifts are overrated
 

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Doesn't matter, most females judge eachother by stuff like this. It becomes a game of who got the best most romantic gift/gesture
 

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I just dumped her, so nothing.

She was dishonest with me and that was it. What a dishonest person. I don't normally raise my voice at a woman, but I did tonight. Yelled at her. She said she wanted me to apologize and "thanks for making this situation very uncomfortable."

Yeah well it wouldn't be uncomfortable if you had honesty, humility, or preferably both, you liar.

She was hanging around the door for a long time. I think she expected me to come running up the stairs, saying, "I'm sorry honey! I didn't mean it! You're right, I shouldn't have been angry at you!" But dead silence.

I sent her an email soon after she left terminating it officially on account of her dishonesty. I caught her in her own lies and she knows it, just doesn't want to admit it. Maybe that's why she's 41 and still unmarried, LOL. And she was complaining about her boyfriend cheating on her. You know what, dishonesty attracts dishonesty (I told her that in the email).

I am still ripping mad but gosh, there is nothing better than knowing that you are right and that a woman is being dishonest, and then letting them have it to her face in the room, not electronically.

I said, "I'm glad I know your true character after only meeting you 3 times!" Which is true. It didn't take long for the monster to come out.

Zero tolerance policy worked well tonight. Out of my life forever. Moral of the story: never tolerate bullcrap from a woman, let her have it to her face. It may feel scary at first, but it is the only way to teach them a lesson.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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^Sry to hear about that man, hope things get better
 

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Since i have been going out with her for a 4th time now, i feel it is only right that i give her something and she is probably expecting something too. I will give her the best gift she could want: Me. She will definitely love it.
 

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sageproduct said:
^Sry to hear about that man, hope things get better
Thanks dude.

It sucks now but I was taken advantage of in a major way (I was helping her with some music recordings- basically being used). Oh well. It's still better to trust people than not to trust them.

Ronaldo7 said:
Since i have been going out with her for a 4th time now, i feel it is only right that i give her something and she is probably expecting something too. I will give her the best gift she could want: Me. She will definitely love it.
ROFLMAO. If I ever go into stand-up comedy is it OK if I use your posts in my routine Ronaldo? This is comic gold.
 

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These b@tches ain't getting a damn thing from me, f@ck em.
 

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Just an old fashioned tiny envelope Valentine, sent in a larger envelope via US mail. Last year it was a bunch of little things totalling under $40 but she was gushing over it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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got no *****es in my stable atm.

though i did get a girls number from class today. shes hottest in there and sounds recently divorced!

so.. lets see how this goes!
 

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Forget getting her a box of Godiva chocolates. Buy the box for yourself, toss out the candy and take it over to the mature man section so they can fill it with their Red Pills! LMAO.
 

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F**k Valentine's day!

Or should I say, singles/ chumps awareness day, national tricking day, national entitlement day!
 

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Ah, what a delight to see a bunch of grown up men puffing their chests and acting all manly.

I wouldn't be suprise if half of you end up cooking dinner Thursday night for the woman of your hottie vaginal desires

Life's a biatch and you gotta kiss up to it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Darth said:
Thanks dude.

It sucks now but I was taken advantage of in a major way (I was helping her with some music recordings- basically being used). Oh well. It's still better to trust people than not to trust them.



ROFLMAO. If I ever go into stand-up comedy is it OK if I use your posts in my routine Ronaldo? This is comic gold.
How is that funny? I actually plan on doing that.
 

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GotED? said:
Life's a biatch and you gotta kiss up to it.
?????

That may be your value system but it sure as hell isn't mine.
 

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Ronaldo7 said:
How is that funny? I actually plan on doing that.
It just your style of delivery when you're talking about yourself dude, it cracks me up:p
 
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