Sonny Knight
Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 18, 2012
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:cheer: wrap up some unpaid bills in a box and give it to her:cheer:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Thanks dude.sageproduct said:^Sry to hear about that man, hope things get better
ROFLMAO. If I ever go into stand-up comedy is it OK if I use your posts in my routine Ronaldo? This is comic gold.Ronaldo7 said:Since i have been going out with her for a 4th time now, i feel it is only right that i give her something and she is probably expecting something too. I will give her the best gift she could want: Me. She will definitely love it.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
This.nismo-4 said:F**k Valentine's day!
Or should I say, singles/ chumps awareness day, national tricking day, national entitlement day!
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
How is that funny? I actually plan on doing that.Darth said:Thanks dude.
It sucks now but I was taken advantage of in a major way (I was helping her with some music recordings- basically being used). Oh well. It's still better to trust people than not to trust them.
ROFLMAO. If I ever go into stand-up comedy is it OK if I use your posts in my routine Ronaldo? This is comic gold.
?????GotED? said:Life's a biatch and you gotta kiss up to it.
It just your style of delivery when you're talking about yourself dude, it cracks me upRonaldo7 said:How is that funny? I actually plan on doing that.