Sonny Knight
Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 18, 2012
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:cheer: wrap up some unpaid bills in a box and give it to her:cheer:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Thanks dude.sageproduct said:^Sry to hear about that man, hope things get better
ROFLMAO. If I ever go into stand-up comedy is it OK if I use your posts in my routine Ronaldo? This is comic gold.Ronaldo7 said:Since i have been going out with her for a 4th time now, i feel it is only right that i give her something and she is probably expecting something too. I will give her the best gift she could want: Me. She will definitely love it.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
This.nismo-4 said:F**k Valentine's day!
Or should I say, singles/ chumps awareness day, national tricking day, national entitlement day!
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How is that funny? I actually plan on doing that.Darth said:Thanks dude.
It sucks now but I was taken advantage of in a major way (I was helping her with some music recordings- basically being used). Oh well. It's still better to trust people than not to trust them.
ROFLMAO. If I ever go into stand-up comedy is it OK if I use your posts in my routine Ronaldo? This is comic gold.
?????GotED? said:Life's a biatch and you gotta kiss up to it.
It just your style of delivery when you're talking about yourself dude, it cracks me upRonaldo7 said:How is that funny? I actually plan on doing that.