Sonny Knight
Don Juan
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- Dec 18, 2012
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:cheer: wrap up some unpaid bills in a box and give it to her:cheer:
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Thanks dude.sageproduct said:^Sry to hear about that man, hope things get better
ROFLMAO. If I ever go into stand-up comedy is it OK if I use your posts in my routine Ronaldo? This is comic gold.Ronaldo7 said:Since i have been going out with her for a 4th time now, i feel it is only right that i give her something and she is probably expecting something too. I will give her the best gift she could want: Me. She will definitely love it.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
This.nismo-4 said:F**k Valentine's day!
Or should I say, singles/ chumps awareness day, national tricking day, national entitlement day!
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How is that funny? I actually plan on doing that.Darth said:Thanks dude.
It sucks now but I was taken advantage of in a major way (I was helping her with some music recordings- basically being used). Oh well. It's still better to trust people than not to trust them.
ROFLMAO. If I ever go into stand-up comedy is it OK if I use your posts in my routine Ronaldo? This is comic gold.
?????GotED? said:Life's a biatch and you gotta kiss up to it.
It just your style of delivery when you're talking about yourself dude, it cracks me upRonaldo7 said:How is that funny? I actually plan on doing that.