narcissist
Master Don Juan
Give me a list of the pros and cons of following my ex gf on Instagram.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What are the pros and cons of this.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
BraddH
Master Don Juan
Other than that you get attention here through this stupid post, nothing else. And this is a con.
Deadly_Ripped
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BraddH never thought I'd say this, but... Just repped you for your post. Spot on.BraddH said:
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Don't you mean you ripped him? :crackup:Deadly_Ripped said:
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
He is narcissist.... Of course he would make a thread like this...
There is no pros here.. Only cons. She's an ex for a reason. Why do you care what she's doing?
I am betting she dumped him and he is not over it yet. Can't see any other reason to orbit her instagram for any logical reason.
Epi
There is no pros here.. Only cons. She's an ex for a reason. Why do you care what she's doing?
I am betting she dumped him and he is not over it yet. Can't see any other reason to orbit her instagram for any logical reason.
Epi
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Lmfao great responses. Always fun to make a dumb thread and see people's reactions. Hilarious 
BraddH
Master Don Juan
As you can see, we enjoy your stupidity and idioticy greatly.narcissist said:Lmfao great responses. Always fun to make a dumb thread and see people's reactions. Hilarious
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Pros: Perhaps she post's cool pictures.
Cons: She posts bad pictures!
Cons: She posts bad pictures!
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Idiocy*BraddH said:
Between_The_Lines
Master Don Juan
I once went off on a tangent on my ex about the complications that girls with daddy issues tend to bring into relationships. Having daddy issues herself, she took great offense to what I said and later angrily told me to jump on google and look into the "pros of girls with daddy issues". Yes, that seriously happened and I hope that answers your question OP.
In 1991 I had a Mazda RX-7 convertible. It was a cool car. Rotax motor, leather interior, cool stereo with speakers in the head rests, etc. etc. I had a lot of fun in that car, and a lot of good memories.
Many cars have come and gone since then, but the memories in that little car were fun.
Based on where I am today, and what I drive now, I have no desire to see, sit in, or drive that little RX-7.
Just a thought.
Many cars have come and gone since then, but the memories in that little car were fun.
Based on where I am today, and what I drive now, I have no desire to see, sit in, or drive that little RX-7.
Just a thought.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dgwizdal
Master Don Juan
Not a troll thread - I seen your post in the NC thread. Don't do it buddy - not yet at least.
And I can almost guarantee your ex is going to start knocking on your door to see if you're still the little b!tch you most likely went out as...
...and you are not.
Time to amp up your game and insouciance. Play this right and she will see you in a new light and be yours when you want her as long as your in the right mentality. If you're not - continue your no contact
Went through the exact circumstances from start to finish that you have in regards to your "sosuave story" and transformation into the man you are today. Now my bombshell 6-year ex who drove me to sosuave and borderline beta insanity is my little slvt once or twice a month on demand while she knows i'm banging other chicks. I have no interest in pursuing anything further with her. The odds are in your favor to put that little thought to rest in the back of your head IF and only IF you are able to put the past in the past and start off establishing a new frame while remaining outcome independent.
PM me if you'd like some further advice either way...
And I can almost guarantee your ex is going to start knocking on your door to see if you're still the little b!tch you most likely went out as...
...and you are not.
Time to amp up your game and insouciance. Play this right and she will see you in a new light and be yours when you want her as long as your in the right mentality. If you're not - continue your no contact
Went through the exact circumstances from start to finish that you have in regards to your "sosuave story" and transformation into the man you are today. Now my bombshell 6-year ex who drove me to sosuave and borderline beta insanity is my little slvt once or twice a month on demand while she knows i'm banging other chicks. I have no interest in pursuing anything further with her. The odds are in your favor to put that little thought to rest in the back of your head IF and only IF you are able to put the past in the past and start off establishing a new frame while remaining outcome independent.
PM me if you'd like some further advice either way...
You gone NC. Keep it that way. Following her on IG will just make you depressed when you see her having a good time with other dudes. She don't give a crap about you so why should you? Forget her and move forward with your life .