narcissist
Master Don Juan
Give me a list of the pros and cons of following my ex gf on Instagram.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What are the pros and cons of this.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
BraddH
Master Don Juan
Other than that you get attention here through this stupid post, nothing else. And this is a con.
Deadly_Ripped
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BraddH never thought I'd say this, but... Just repped you for your post. Spot on.BraddH said:
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Don't you mean you ripped him? :crackup:Deadly_Ripped said:
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
He is narcissist.... Of course he would make a thread like this...
There is no pros here.. Only cons. She's an ex for a reason. Why do you care what she's doing?
I am betting she dumped him and he is not over it yet. Can't see any other reason to orbit her instagram for any logical reason.
Epi
There is no pros here.. Only cons. She's an ex for a reason. Why do you care what she's doing?
I am betting she dumped him and he is not over it yet. Can't see any other reason to orbit her instagram for any logical reason.
Epi
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Lmfao great responses. Always fun to make a dumb thread and see people's reactions. Hilarious 
BraddH
Master Don Juan
As you can see, we enjoy your stupidity and idioticy greatly.narcissist said:Lmfao great responses. Always fun to make a dumb thread and see people's reactions. Hilarious
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Pros: Perhaps she post's cool pictures.
Cons: She posts bad pictures!
Cons: She posts bad pictures!
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Idiocy*BraddH said:
Between_The_Lines
Master Don Juan
I once went off on a tangent on my ex about the complications that girls with daddy issues tend to bring into relationships. Having daddy issues herself, she took great offense to what I said and later angrily told me to jump on google and look into the "pros of girls with daddy issues". Yes, that seriously happened and I hope that answers your question OP.
In 1991 I had a Mazda RX-7 convertible. It was a cool car. Rotax motor, leather interior, cool stereo with speakers in the head rests, etc. etc. I had a lot of fun in that car, and a lot of good memories.
Many cars have come and gone since then, but the memories in that little car were fun.
Based on where I am today, and what I drive now, I have no desire to see, sit in, or drive that little RX-7.
Just a thought.
Many cars have come and gone since then, but the memories in that little car were fun.
Based on where I am today, and what I drive now, I have no desire to see, sit in, or drive that little RX-7.
Just a thought.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Dgwizdal
Master Don Juan
Not a troll thread - I seen your post in the NC thread. Don't do it buddy - not yet at least.
And I can almost guarantee your ex is going to start knocking on your door to see if you're still the little b!tch you most likely went out as...
...and you are not.
Time to amp up your game and insouciance. Play this right and she will see you in a new light and be yours when you want her as long as your in the right mentality. If you're not - continue your no contact
Went through the exact circumstances from start to finish that you have in regards to your "sosuave story" and transformation into the man you are today. Now my bombshell 6-year ex who drove me to sosuave and borderline beta insanity is my little slvt once or twice a month on demand while she knows i'm banging other chicks. I have no interest in pursuing anything further with her. The odds are in your favor to put that little thought to rest in the back of your head IF and only IF you are able to put the past in the past and start off establishing a new frame while remaining outcome independent.
PM me if you'd like some further advice either way...
And I can almost guarantee your ex is going to start knocking on your door to see if you're still the little b!tch you most likely went out as...
...and you are not.
Time to amp up your game and insouciance. Play this right and she will see you in a new light and be yours when you want her as long as your in the right mentality. If you're not - continue your no contact
Went through the exact circumstances from start to finish that you have in regards to your "sosuave story" and transformation into the man you are today. Now my bombshell 6-year ex who drove me to sosuave and borderline beta insanity is my little slvt once or twice a month on demand while she knows i'm banging other chicks. I have no interest in pursuing anything further with her. The odds are in your favor to put that little thought to rest in the back of your head IF and only IF you are able to put the past in the past and start off establishing a new frame while remaining outcome independent.
PM me if you'd like some further advice either way...
You gone NC. Keep it that way. Following her on IG will just make you depressed when you see her having a good time with other dudes. She don't give a crap about you so why should you? Forget her and move forward with your life .