narcissist
Master Don Juan
Give me a list of the pros and cons of following my ex gf on Instagram.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
What are the pros and cons of this.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
BraddH
Master Don Juan
Other than that you get attention here through this stupid post, nothing else. And this is a con.
Deadly_Ripped
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BraddH never thought I'd say this, but... Just repped you for your post. Spot on.BraddH said:
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Don't you mean you ripped him? :crackup:Deadly_Ripped said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
He is narcissist.... Of course he would make a thread like this...
There is no pros here.. Only cons. She's an ex for a reason. Why do you care what she's doing?
I am betting she dumped him and he is not over it yet. Can't see any other reason to orbit her instagram for any logical reason.
Epi
There is no pros here.. Only cons. She's an ex for a reason. Why do you care what she's doing?
I am betting she dumped him and he is not over it yet. Can't see any other reason to orbit her instagram for any logical reason.
Epi
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Lmfao great responses. Always fun to make a dumb thread and see people's reactions. Hilarious 
BraddH
Master Don Juan
As you can see, we enjoy your stupidity and idioticy greatly.narcissist said:Lmfao great responses. Always fun to make a dumb thread and see people's reactions. Hilarious
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Pros: Perhaps she post's cool pictures.
Cons: She posts bad pictures!
Cons: She posts bad pictures!
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Idiocy*BraddH said:
Between_The_Lines
Master Don Juan
I once went off on a tangent on my ex about the complications that girls with daddy issues tend to bring into relationships. Having daddy issues herself, she took great offense to what I said and later angrily told me to jump on google and look into the "pros of girls with daddy issues". Yes, that seriously happened and I hope that answers your question OP.
In 1991 I had a Mazda RX-7 convertible. It was a cool car. Rotax motor, leather interior, cool stereo with speakers in the head rests, etc. etc. I had a lot of fun in that car, and a lot of good memories.
Many cars have come and gone since then, but the memories in that little car were fun.
Based on where I am today, and what I drive now, I have no desire to see, sit in, or drive that little RX-7.
Just a thought.
Many cars have come and gone since then, but the memories in that little car were fun.
Based on where I am today, and what I drive now, I have no desire to see, sit in, or drive that little RX-7.
Just a thought.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Dgwizdal
Master Don Juan
Not a troll thread - I seen your post in the NC thread. Don't do it buddy - not yet at least.
And I can almost guarantee your ex is going to start knocking on your door to see if you're still the little b!tch you most likely went out as...
...and you are not.
Time to amp up your game and insouciance. Play this right and she will see you in a new light and be yours when you want her as long as your in the right mentality. If you're not - continue your no contact
Went through the exact circumstances from start to finish that you have in regards to your "sosuave story" and transformation into the man you are today. Now my bombshell 6-year ex who drove me to sosuave and borderline beta insanity is my little slvt once or twice a month on demand while she knows i'm banging other chicks. I have no interest in pursuing anything further with her. The odds are in your favor to put that little thought to rest in the back of your head IF and only IF you are able to put the past in the past and start off establishing a new frame while remaining outcome independent.
PM me if you'd like some further advice either way...
And I can almost guarantee your ex is going to start knocking on your door to see if you're still the little b!tch you most likely went out as...
...and you are not.
Time to amp up your game and insouciance. Play this right and she will see you in a new light and be yours when you want her as long as your in the right mentality. If you're not - continue your no contact
Went through the exact circumstances from start to finish that you have in regards to your "sosuave story" and transformation into the man you are today. Now my bombshell 6-year ex who drove me to sosuave and borderline beta insanity is my little slvt once or twice a month on demand while she knows i'm banging other chicks. I have no interest in pursuing anything further with her. The odds are in your favor to put that little thought to rest in the back of your head IF and only IF you are able to put the past in the past and start off establishing a new frame while remaining outcome independent.
PM me if you'd like some further advice either way...
You gone NC. Keep it that way. Following her on IG will just make you depressed when you see her having a good time with other dudes. She don't give a crap about you so why should you? Forget her and move forward with your life .