narcissist
Master Don Juan
Give me a list of the pros and cons of following my ex gf on Instagram.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
What are the pros and cons of this.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
BraddH
Master Don Juan
Other than that you get attention here through this stupid post, nothing else. And this is a con.
Deadly_Ripped
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BraddH never thought I'd say this, but... Just repped you for your post. Spot on.BraddH said:
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Don't you mean you ripped him? :crackup:Deadly_Ripped said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
He is narcissist.... Of course he would make a thread like this...
There is no pros here.. Only cons. She's an ex for a reason. Why do you care what she's doing?
I am betting she dumped him and he is not over it yet. Can't see any other reason to orbit her instagram for any logical reason.
Epi
There is no pros here.. Only cons. She's an ex for a reason. Why do you care what she's doing?
I am betting she dumped him and he is not over it yet. Can't see any other reason to orbit her instagram for any logical reason.
Epi
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Lmfao great responses. Always fun to make a dumb thread and see people's reactions. Hilarious 
BraddH
Master Don Juan
As you can see, we enjoy your stupidity and idioticy greatly.narcissist said:Lmfao great responses. Always fun to make a dumb thread and see people's reactions. Hilarious
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Pros: Perhaps she post's cool pictures.
Cons: She posts bad pictures!
Cons: She posts bad pictures!
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Idiocy*BraddH said:
Between_The_Lines
Master Don Juan
I once went off on a tangent on my ex about the complications that girls with daddy issues tend to bring into relationships. Having daddy issues herself, she took great offense to what I said and later angrily told me to jump on google and look into the "pros of girls with daddy issues". Yes, that seriously happened and I hope that answers your question OP.
In 1991 I had a Mazda RX-7 convertible. It was a cool car. Rotax motor, leather interior, cool stereo with speakers in the head rests, etc. etc. I had a lot of fun in that car, and a lot of good memories.
Many cars have come and gone since then, but the memories in that little car were fun.
Based on where I am today, and what I drive now, I have no desire to see, sit in, or drive that little RX-7.
Just a thought.
Many cars have come and gone since then, but the memories in that little car were fun.
Based on where I am today, and what I drive now, I have no desire to see, sit in, or drive that little RX-7.
Just a thought.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Dgwizdal
Master Don Juan
Not a troll thread - I seen your post in the NC thread. Don't do it buddy - not yet at least.
And I can almost guarantee your ex is going to start knocking on your door to see if you're still the little b!tch you most likely went out as...
...and you are not.
Time to amp up your game and insouciance. Play this right and she will see you in a new light and be yours when you want her as long as your in the right mentality. If you're not - continue your no contact
Went through the exact circumstances from start to finish that you have in regards to your "sosuave story" and transformation into the man you are today. Now my bombshell 6-year ex who drove me to sosuave and borderline beta insanity is my little slvt once or twice a month on demand while she knows i'm banging other chicks. I have no interest in pursuing anything further with her. The odds are in your favor to put that little thought to rest in the back of your head IF and only IF you are able to put the past in the past and start off establishing a new frame while remaining outcome independent.
PM me if you'd like some further advice either way...
And I can almost guarantee your ex is going to start knocking on your door to see if you're still the little b!tch you most likely went out as...
...and you are not.
Time to amp up your game and insouciance. Play this right and she will see you in a new light and be yours when you want her as long as your in the right mentality. If you're not - continue your no contact
Went through the exact circumstances from start to finish that you have in regards to your "sosuave story" and transformation into the man you are today. Now my bombshell 6-year ex who drove me to sosuave and borderline beta insanity is my little slvt once or twice a month on demand while she knows i'm banging other chicks. I have no interest in pursuing anything further with her. The odds are in your favor to put that little thought to rest in the back of your head IF and only IF you are able to put the past in the past and start off establishing a new frame while remaining outcome independent.
PM me if you'd like some further advice either way...
You gone NC. Keep it that way. Following her on IG will just make you depressed when you see her having a good time with other dudes. She don't give a crap about you so why should you? Forget her and move forward with your life .