You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
It's bad for them, maybe. For some though, it's probably a good thing. Better to be single than having to deal with a crazy biatch.And do you even consider this to be a bad thing?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I agree complaining about it won't do much, but instead of trying to domesticate a buffalo and telling men they are all bad/boring we should start telling men to filter out these toxic women from the get to.Another day another thread about how jaded the dating market is against men!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Higher barrier of entry means higher competition. This girl could be flaking on you on some NFL player not some average joe on the street that you think you are competing against. Girls are now dating dudes 3 notches above them, so that 5 you are trying to game could be talking to an 8 or 9. However, these dudes will never submit to a 5, so they are essentially just wasting everyone's time lol.Social media and the internet, gave women way more options then they should of had. As a result their egos have sky-rocketed higher then mt Everest.
The barrier of entry for the average man just keeps getting higher and higher.