You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
It's bad for them, maybe. For some though, it's probably a good thing. Better to be single than having to deal with a crazy biatch.And do you even consider this to be a bad thing?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I agree complaining about it won't do much, but instead of trying to domesticate a buffalo and telling men they are all bad/boring we should start telling men to filter out these toxic women from the get to.Another day another thread about how jaded the dating market is against men!
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Higher barrier of entry means higher competition. This girl could be flaking on you on some NFL player not some average joe on the street that you think you are competing against. Girls are now dating dudes 3 notches above them, so that 5 you are trying to game could be talking to an 8 or 9. However, these dudes will never submit to a 5, so they are essentially just wasting everyone's time lol.Social media and the internet, gave women way more options then they should of had. As a result their egos have sky-rocketed higher then mt Everest.
The barrier of entry for the average man just keeps getting higher and higher.