What are some things that show a females attraction and commitment level?

[_sideways_]

Basically.... Every one is different crap...but...
Patterns arise I'm sure.

 

[bigneil]

Commitment level??

Attraction happens in the first moment. Commitment toward the last moment. Both are subject to change without notice.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Break down in your car like an hour out and let her come get you.

 

[Poon King]

Submission.

 

[bigneil]

Submission.

Girls who submit are great. Until they leave you and you know what they are up to. But at least you were first.

 

[Poon King]

Girls who submit are great. Until they leave you and you know what they are up to. But at least you were first.

Who cares if they leave?

A woman who "leaves" is not on the same page as you. Would you rather have a short relationship on YOUR terms or a long relationship on a woman's terms?

 

[Who Dares Win]

Trust your gut, if something doesnt work your gut is the first one to notice and communicate it to you via discomfort, stress and a light sense of frustration that grows the longer you ignore it.

 

[bigneil]

Who cares if they leave?


However, any time a woman who "leaves" is not on the same page as you. Would you rather have a short relationship on YOUR terms or a long relationship on a woman's terms?

I'd prefer to have a short term relationship on my terms.

That said, when a girl I think is a 10 leaves me (something that has happened to me about 5-10 times in my life), I care. Always. If I didn't, I wouldn't have been inspired to improve to begin with.

 

[logicallefty]

If she reaches out to you before you do her on a given day, she is attracted.

If you reach your lowest point in life and she stays, she is committed.

 

[Poon King]

I'd prefer to have a short term relationship on my terms.

That said, when a girl I think is a 10 leaves me (something that has happened to me about 5-10 times in my life), I care. Always. If I didn't, I wouldn't have been inspired to improve to begin with.

It shouldn't matter if she is a 10 or not.

If a woman isn't on the same page as you.. there is no reason you should want to be with her. I only want to be with a 10 if she will be a good addition to my life. If she is going to be a c*nt she can get lost.

 

[bigneil]

It shouldn't matter if she is a 10 or not.

If a woman isn't on the same page as you.. there is no reason you should want to be with her. I only want to be with a 10 if she will be a good addition to my life. If she is going to be a c*nt she can get lost.

Ok, well when a 10 goes from being on the same page to not being on the same page, I care. And I never call her names.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

Are they working to keep you happy or are you working to keep them happy?

 

[Poon King]

Ok, well when a 10 goes from being on the same page to not being on the same page, I care. And I never call her names.

How is that working out for you so far?

 

[bigneil]

How is that working out for you so far?

I had sex with one this month, and two slightly lesser females, 5 in the past 2 months, so not bad.

 

[bigneil]

Are they working to keep you happy or are you working to keep them happy?

Assuming time is money:

If I'm talking about how great a woman is, she is providing me a good value. If I were "paying for it" that would imply it were "for sale". How much does a night of mad, passionate sex with your dream girl cost?

Answer: a little more than a girl who looks at her watch for an hour and then goes to the next stop on the train. But people hard on cash will imply that paying for dinner implies paying a street walker.

The answer to the question "Did he pay for it?" is always yes. It's about how much. A penny is a good deal. A million not so much. Somewhere in between lies the optimal value (called the price point). I think it's a function of earnings. How much do you think Donald Trump spent on his first date with Melania? Think they went to the corner bar for a Bud Light on her? So it's not about "did you spend any money?" it's about "did she provide a good value?"

 

[Poon King]

I had sex with one this month, and two slightly lesser females, 5 in the past 2 months, so not bad.

I was referring to "caring" when a 10 leaves you because you are not on the same page.

The point I'm making is that wanting to be with a sh!tty person just because they are a 10 makes a man seem desperate.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

This whole hb10 stuff is a bit tedious. Go for women you are attracted to sure but if you don't like their personality what is the point? I am not an hb10 either. Find women that make you happy. Everyone else can go f-ck themselves. If you like fat, tattooed, bald girls with a moustache and a lederhosen fetish that is your own business.

 

[sazc]

A girl that is into you is going to make it easy on your because she wants you to feel that it is easy to be with her. She will be available, she will be happy, she will be kinoing you. I guess the commitment level can be gauged by having this occur on an ongoing manner. You can also tell by her actions where she is at with you. And listen to her words. If her words match her deeds, or the deeds exceed what she is saying, there is high interest there.

 

[3agle 3yes]

Assuming OP wanted an answer that showed "attraction AND commitment" (as in all in one) I would say "attachment".

If she frequently wants to be with you (around you) then that is attraction and commitment.

 

[BeExcellent]

She asks how she can help you, then she helps; she sticks with you when things are tough; she doesn't complain, she is giving of physical attention; she stops what she is doing or talking about when you need to do something or talk about something; she creates for you a respite and comfortable environment in which to recharge; she gives you peace & space to decompress; she cares for you demonstrably and consistently. In doing the above things she loves you.

Love is an action verb. When you love someone you do loving things. Observe what she is doing. Her actions are what show you attraction & commitment.