"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
What are some good songs to bang to?
- Thread starter venser
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
Just a Lil' Bit - 50 Cent
Candy Shop - 50 Cent
The Way I Are - Timbaland
I Wanna **** You - Akon
Back that Ass Up - Juvenile
pretty much anything you can freak to
Techno (the best stuff)
Can You Feel the Bass - Benny Benassi
I Love My Sex - Benny Benassi
Play It Hard - DJ Dean
Make U Move (Rocco vs. Bass-T Remix) - DJ E-Maxx
Sextacy - East Clubbers
Sexplosion - East Clubbers
With techno, the best is stuff with higher BPM, around 130 or so is PRIMEEEEE.
counting crows - color blind
bloodhound gang - the bad touch
Remy Zero - Fair
Ben Harper - Sexual healing
Howie Day - collide
supremo you listed alot of faster songs "stuff you can freak to", generally i always thought of using slower songs. Whats your experience with the faster songs? Does it change the sex? (does the pumping get more vigorous lol? etc..)
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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War Against Betaism
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When you're banging, even though it feels great, you don't want to rush it. Take it slow. I'd suggest a whole list of R&B songs would do, but R&B in general would do. Though...
Take It Slow - Ying Yang Twins.
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yin yang twins
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
Oh hell yeah man.venser said:
It may not sound true, but if you try to keep up with the beat of the techno music... you'll be caught up in that and end up lasting a lot longer.
Kind of a cool trick.
But slow songs aren't bad either. Those are for keepin it romantic n all that ****.
Fast songs are for releasing your primal urges and gettin down!
Hella fun dude. Good luck with that.
Few more that are perfect -
Alizee Remix - Benny Benassi
Suck on my Lollipop - DJ Alligator Project
Pretty much anything by BB is great for having sex to.
But whatever floats your boat.
Like I said, in my opinion, faster = more fun = better.
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Charm&Style
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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jesusrules
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Thinking about it put on some heavy metal cause most likey she will hate it and be rough in bed..lol.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.